How can I suggest to my bf that I want to have sex with him and several other guys at the same time. Please don't lecture me about all the risk, I'm 47 and I know how to protect myself. I juat want to be a ..w h o r e.. sometimes, is that so bad?
2007-03-13 08:50:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit him down all alone one night just you and him and tell him that you have a fantasy and that you would like to talk to him about it and get his take on things. Then ease into it. If he's not game though, understand that lots of men wouldn't be and that if you push the issue you could end up losing him. Also know that by bringing this up he may have a fantasy of his own he may want you to be part of.
2007-03-13 08:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 47 and on Yahoo asking a question like this? You need a life. There's more to life than a computer. Obviously you're not a very mature 47!!
2007-03-13 15:55:15 · answer #2 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, mam'm! Be careful.. do you realize that a person can still catch diseases even with protection. It's pretty bad that one man cannot satisfy you. Maybe you should dump the bf and just get someone else.. but ONE man not many. Be careful. People like you are the ones spreading diseases because they cannot remain with one person... sad sad..
2007-03-13 15:55:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ermmmm - it depends on your feelings for your bf. If you're worried about scaring him off you could always put it forward in a joke style and see what reaction you get from that and then go from there - or you could just come straight out and be honest - you never know he might really dig the idea!!! Good luck!
2007-03-13 15:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by mangachiquita 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are going through a "mid-life crisis" or are
developing a Bi-Polar disorder and are in a Manic phase.
Have you ever been into multi-partner sex before ?
I do understand your fantasy...
2007-03-13 16:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, I wish I was there. Honestly lots of people have fantasies, but I wonder if he could handle this. I know I couldn't, if I really loved you. if you were a casual person, then probably.
2007-03-13 15:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG that is awesome! Good for you! Lol. Well, maybe you guys should have an open relationship and if he's not up for it then you have to decide which is more important.
2007-03-13 15:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it in person or write him a note. i don't know do it the way u think is comfortable
2007-03-13 15:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's just curiosity. Don't let it get out of hand though.
2007-03-13 15:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in a sexy moment. put on some porn... get kinky with him.. and say "ever wonder what it would be like to watch me get f*****?"
2007-03-13 16:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by BellaJ_DDils 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋