I'm quite confident when i first start hanging around girls but if i like one I'm always too scared to say I like them and i seem to change my personality when im attracted to them? Haven't had a girlfriend in 4 years, I been getting prostitutes now and then. But i'm sick of that cause they don't actually like you. I kinda just want that love feeling or to be liked feeling?
2007-03-13 08:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by nightdreamer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow there are some real *** holes on here like the first two that answered your question. Anyway I understand what your saying. U can talk with a girl but when u like them u get anxiety and its different. The way to combat this is to have the frame of mind of never trying to pick up a girl, its hard. Then u keep your cool, just say to yourself I don't want a girlfriend. Then u talk to them like a friend and are youself and go at it like that and if sparks are there it will fall into place for ya. And yeah prostitutes are no good u just have to go without till u find a good girl. Its been 7 months since me and my wife split and I know I have to work on myself before I date again and I go without. I was always considered a nympo in a relationship so its rough but I deal. Good luck man! And only listen to people on here who are mature!..
2007-03-13 14:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is really diffcult to find a woman that will work for u and its even harder when you are looking for love if u would like to be in a relationship then just sit back and wait the good women usually come around when u are not expecting them and if u feel like u ack different when u like some one it is probabley because ur not telling them how u really feel. Women love it when a guy has the balls to express how he really feels and you would be suprised at the reaction you might get, usually when a guy is cofident enough to let a gurl know he likes her then he is defenately worth a try.... all i can say is just be yourself and if u feel a certin way let her know, becaus if u dont you might not ever know what could have been?? and also if u are looking to get out into the dating world just be a sweet heart there are millions of single ladies out there who are looking for a fun loving respectful man which im sure could defenately be you so keep u head up dont be shy and just be yourself you will get results evenchtually i promise good luck
2007-03-13 16:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by LucKieZ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should stop getting those prostitute girls u might get sick and its a big turn off,..
well just act normal when u are around girls especially the one the u like
2007-03-13 15:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I find it hard to believe that you find it easier to find a prostitute and say "How much, okay, where should we go" then to see a nice, attractive woman and say "Hey, would you like to see a movie with me". Your fear of rejection is just selfishness and not wanting to burst your ego. Suck it up and find a decent person. Do you even deserve one?
2007-03-13 15:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ill put it to you this way my homeboi has the same problem but thats cause he is scared of rejection. dont be scared fool go for it and if she aint interested say **** it and move on cause pretty that was just a waste of time. you wont ever get a chic if you dont try so go for it dont be scured
2007-03-13 15:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by laloca_2004 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your'e serious ur a freak. If you can't be tourself around girls then maybe you need to turn your nuts in so you can't contaminate the rest of the world.
2007-03-13 15:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES THE PUNISHER 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well i think you should just try your hardest to be who you really are and don't even think that you like her it just might work
hope this helps
2007-03-13 16:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by pocahontas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋