my last ex and i broke up in jan and she met a new bf a few weeks after and a month later decides to marry him
2007-03-13 08:48:22 · 11 answers · asked by sgsingle2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh Man! You look behind in the mirror SWEARING there MUST be a knife through your back JAMMED right into your heart?!!!! Your brain is LIKE...how can you EVER get over this?!!! How to get through this?!
1. Go to the movie rental store near you! Rent The Break Up. Take your time after watching this one...get a good perspective of relationships! How much resembled your relationship...where did you both go wrong? Vent! It's the BEST form of medicine at this point. Learn from this!
2. Next watch: Pride n Prejudice, Sliding Doors, a lot like Love, Must Love Dogs...ALL these will give you HOPE!
3. Call your friends up...meet at a sports bar! Talk about your what happened...accept that she wasn't your "soul mate"! Acceptance is the 1st step towards freedom of pain. Your soul mate would NEVER have accepted a marriage proposal from another man!
4. Get your friends to call you each day with a funny joke to cheer you up!
5. Go see a new release...something upbeat, lots of action!
6. It's time to move forward. Accept a date with the guys to go out!
7. Get a number...ONLY ONE...make it count!
I went through it not so long ago...my life is MUCH better withOUT him! Good luck!
2007-03-13 09:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 21:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life she obviously was not the one for you. You will find the right girl someday, and you will have to go through quite a few different breakups to find her.......or you could find the right girl soon you never know. Just remember that trying to find her is all of the fun, and the best years of your life. But always treat people how you would like to be treated. With the same courtesy and respect you would want.
2007-03-13 08:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by josified 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't know what to say.. did you do something wrong to cause the break up? did you tell her you loved her and did you guys make plans for the future? I would need to know more about this issue.. if you did something wrong and she moved on then i would have to say you messed up and lost a good thing and she found someone who truly would take care of her... be happy for her and move on too and don't make the same mistake twice.. but if she broke it off with you then you know why she cheated on you.. so move one he loss... now if it was a we thing then i have to say maybe you didn't move fast enough for her she has plans and you where not making the move she was wanting so be happy and full fill your dreams as she did which means wedding and kids.. for you it may mean something different.. so morn if you must then pick your self off the floor and move on and have fun and wish her well as you take that next step into the next chapter of life....take care......
2007-03-13 08:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does heal a broken heart. At this point, there is little you can do. Find a nice girl and go forward with your life. Good luck.
2007-03-13 08:53:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejoice and move on to find that special one who is just for you. Not gonna happen if all you do is pine for the one that got away so take a time out, get your stuff together then get back in the game...
2007-03-13 08:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude don't worry time will heal. I know it sounds like what everyone says but it's true give it time and when you feel ready start dating again. She obviously is not the one for you so keep looking. Good luck.
2007-03-13 08:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went tru the same exact thing except it was a boyfriend not a girlfreind.....lol......well anyways I would try to keep my mind distracted and move on to new people. Try to think of all the her bad qualities.
2007-03-13 08:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is probably that she already knew him before she dumped you.
Consider yourself lucky. You got away with hurt feelings; he's marrying a lying cheat.
You dodged a bullet.
2007-03-13 08:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by laffryot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should try to move on cause now that shes married you cant try to win her back. or she was so upset with you that she got married real quick so that you couldnt have a second chance. but whatever it is you gotta find that special somone
2007-03-13 09:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by Jelly_Beans13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋