My boyfriend is really weird.....me being wet when i'm aroused is a turn off for him. I don't know why.... he always is like backing away when I say i'm wet...
I thought guys get turned on by this....it obviously means they're doing a great job pleasuring their partner right?
Ugh doesn't make sense and it kinda hurts a little because i can't help it and i love him to death.
2007-03-13 08:46:31 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its not the wording.
its Just he doesn't get it . Its kinda funny once you think about it but yeah he likes anal alot. So.. idk. I'll try to explain to him.... again... -.-"
2007-03-13 08:57:59 · update #1
maybe your bf is into rough sex and by you being wet it means no pain...lol I don't know!!!
just keep it to yourself and enjoy
2007-03-13 08:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That is definetley a strange one...getting turned OFF by your wetness? There is nothing you can do about it...so what does he expect you to do? Its your natural lube...so what..does he like it dry and full of friction? Ouch! He needs to get over it and you should have a talk with him as to why it turns him off...explain to him that it just happens naturally and it happens cuz he turns u on..and ask him would he rather he not turn you on? Because if so..then you need to find a new boyfriend that can handle this..and you're are right ..i think 98.9% of straight men do get turned on by this.. you would think...dont think ive ever met a guy who wasnt.
P.S...but if its not actually the wetness that turns him off..and its possibly the stating that your wet that turns him off..then maybe he's just not into dirty talk in which case..just dont do it, but if he still backs away from you when you're wet..and you didnt say anything..then you know the problem
2007-03-13 08:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find a new man, you may love him but why should he get turned off cause you all of a sudden become wet ? Do you ever notice how guys also seem to drip a little right before they actually ejaculate ? Well the next time he drips a little it looks like a clear drip just say eww and tell him that it turns you off and see how he feels and than after wards tell him see you wet also should i be turned off ? Yea it could cause a little argument but i tell you what its worth it.
2007-03-13 08:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is definitely something wrong with your boyfriend. Your getting wet is a natural reaction and you couldn't stop it even if you tried. Maybe you need to explain to him that the wetness is not pee but it is the bodies natural way to prepare you for intercourse. Without that natural lubricant that your body makes, you would not be able to have sex with him. If he cant understand it, it may be time to move on because it will cause nothing but trouble for you two in the future.
2007-03-13 08:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's just something that doesn't do it for him. Is he turned off by you saying it or the fact that you are? If it's the dirty talk of being wet he doesn't like, just refrain from it. Use another term, such as "I'm so turned on". If actually being wet he doesn't like, you can't help that.
2007-03-13 08:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that does hurt. Maybe you guys should read some books together so that he understands it's SUPPOSED to do that. You said it--he's doin' something right. Let him know of the pain that it could cause both of you physically if it doesn't get wet. Hasn't he ever heard of Lick it b4 you stick it!!
2007-03-13 08:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by laedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him NOW! Lubrication is a woman's natural response to sexual arousal and if he's grossed out by you in that state then he shouldn't be in a sexual relationship with anyone. If you continue and try to please him you'll probably wind up trying unsafe practices such as 'dry sex' and that can lead to medical complications.
Find a normal man who wants a normal woman... this guy is not worth it.
2007-03-13 08:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by endorable 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Homegirl , you are dating a retard! I cant even believe you are asking this question. Any man that doesnt like the sound of that may be more interested in the backdoor!
Leave'em and feel free to tell me when the need comes ;0)
2007-03-13 08:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Shonuff 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is it just when you say it? Some guys don't like "dirty talk."
Or is it when you actually are? If so, he's a fool and offer to rub his penis with sandpaper since he isn't fond of your natural lubricant.
If you two aren't sexual, he could be backing off because he isn't ready to have sex yet (waiting for marriage perhaps?)
2007-03-13 08:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Vegan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Different people like different things, and are bugged by different things...if that's a turnoff to him then don't mention it anymore...that won't change the fact that you are wet, but perhaps it's the words that trouble him more than the fact that you are aroused and lubricated.
2007-03-13 08:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
doesn't he want you to get off? don't say anything next time and se eif he still backs away, maybe he thinks once your wet thats it for you, and you don't need more. Kinda like most guys are done once they ***.
2007-03-13 08:50:30 · answer #11 · answered by shayshay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋