I split wit the love of my life 5 months ago,we were really in love. She dumped me cus she thought i didnt trust her cus of a message she got,it was sent by my sis but i took the blame cus of family probs in r house. I near died wit a wee prob and my mum had a cancer scare. She was upset i didnt tell the truth. She went in2 depression wen we split. I wanted 2 tell her but she wudnt speak 2 me, she emailed me recently,shes wit a new guy,she told me she likes him but not in love yet,she still loves me and always will. She said she cant go bak 2 me cus she wont trust me after this but wants me as a friend. Wat do i do cus i really love her,id rather b died than live witout her, i know i can win her trust round,quite quickly,please help me guys. Ive 2 emil her bak any tips???? Ive found out her new fella is only 16 and shes a 20 year old uni student,r friends r disgusted in her and find it sick but i still love her.
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I sent her alot of letters and emails. I have wrote another letter but i am afraid to send it in case it makes me look obsessed. advice please. should i send it???
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2 days ago
has it beenn 2 long??
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please give me some advice folks,this has been driving me mad for months, the pain aint easing
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all her friends r mine and we met at a party a few months ago, when she saw i was upset she started crying, we cant avoid each other, i love her and its going on 2 long, plz help folks
2007-03-13 08:44:41 · 4 answers · asked by Paddy I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her what really happened by email. If you tell her by email rather then on the phone there's more of a chance that she will read it and not cut u off
2007-03-13 08:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...she may love you but is not in love with you anymore. You cannot change that. It didnt work out once, why try again? Just buck up and get over it! Go have fun with friends. Find someone else you connect with ...there are plenty! It took me a year to get over my ex....I didnt think there was anyone else in the world for me...but, with time, it all goes away, and life goes on! As it always will....you just have to be strong. What dont kill you makes you stronger! Life is full of ups and downs...we just have to deal with them and make the best of every situation! You WILL find another love...though it may take some time. Enjoy being single..it has its perks!
2007-03-13 15:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so heart-melting
I think you should e-mail her, show some affection for her. You need her to know that you love her very much and she has to get over the message your sis sent. I think you two are meant for each other and if you two split cuz of a dumb message, forget about it.
2007-03-13 15:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by HardyzChik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep busy, get some hobbies, you need time to get over her
2007-03-13 15:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋