My boyfriend has been acting extremely nice lately so I thought this is nice! However when I was on my merry way this morning I saw him driving (after he already left a half hour ago) in the opposite direction. Thinking something was wrong I called him 3x and texted him. I got no reply. Finally 15 min later he calls back and he tells me he is @ work & I said no we (I was with somone in the car) saw you. Then he proceeds to tell me the job he was sent on is cancelled and he is going back to his regular workplace and he will call me when he is done? Am I being crazy???? Does this sound weird???
2007-03-13 08:42:31 · 22 answers · asked by sedusa71 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WEll yes it does sound suspicious but dont jump to conclusions ask him every weekend on saturdays or fridays to hang out any time if he says early then he's probably cheating peace
glad i could help!
2007-03-13 08:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by Taytor tot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. I felt my BF was cheating cuz of "signs" and he was. Take time to observe him before asking him flat out again. Build up your evidence so to speak. And decide now what you will do if indeed he is cheating. Some people think that's a deal breaker and end the relationship, others choose to work thru it and try to build the relationship once more. What can u live with? Do you really think u can move past it if he is cheating? I hope he doesn't break ur heart--cheating is one of the most painful betrayals to bear. Stay strong, keep your true friends close to you at this time in case you need someone to lean on. Just don't be vengeful and cheat on him to "get him back". You will regret that. Stay up and good luck
2007-03-13 08:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. You're not crazy. I'd say give your guy the benefit of the doubt. His actions suggest he was just being a guy and left out the details of being at work, keeping the conversation simple like guys tend to do :) I wouldn't quite jump the gun to say he is cheating, but you never know... I hope everything works out for you!
2007-03-13 08:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not crazy. if something looks weird to you, then it means you know this is not his normal behavior! what he said to you looks like he got caught and is trying to cover up. Tell him that you trust him and that you don't even want to think he could be cheating on you, and that if someday he wants to do it, he better break up with you first and save the drama. if you overreact he will say you are crazy and he will get mad and you will feel bad and forget about this "incident" so don't let him play reversed psychology on you!
2007-03-13 08:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, No, No, you are being paranoid ,but keep an eye on him without acting like a jealous whacked out girlfriend. You saw him driving because the one job got canceled
2007-03-13 08:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by josified 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds suspicious, but could be legitimate. Just play it by ear and watch for other signs if you think he is cheating. You could give him the benefit of a doubt and believe him. Do you have any reason not to believe him?
2007-03-13 08:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have done the same. But don't stress over it. If he is tellin u that is was cancelled and he is going back to his regular work place.... Y don't u call up to jis work and maybe talk to his boss or sit down w/ him and talk about it... good luck tho
2007-03-13 08:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have to break your head about this. If he is cheating, the truth will come out anyways...always. That's what I tell myself. Why worry and ruin a perfect relationship now. Enjoy your man. He loves you.
2007-03-13 08:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by NiceGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lied to you,no your not crazy and yes it sounds weird and it sounds like he is cheating.Sorry honey,maybe it's time to start looking for a new boyfriend.
2007-03-13 08:50:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering you didn't actually see him with anyone you dont have anything really to base your suspicions on. He could be telling the truth who knows what he was doing I wouldnt worry to much though, but I would trust your gut instinct its often right.
2007-03-13 08:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋