I have already been married but the person I am getting married to hasn't. We both want to do the whole white fluffy dress and nice wedding would it be wrong for me to do that?
Please help!
2007-03-13 08:42:29 · 31 answers · asked by Casey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
It is your wedding, wear what you want, I have seen tons of brides wear white for a second wedding. The only people you have to make happy is yourselves so dont worry about what anyone else says.
2007-03-13 08:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should seek a dress that has more of a rust color to it....Just kidding, Wear what ever you want. It is your wedding, do as you wish. I believe there is too much emphasis put on the tradition and too little interest into the meaning of being/getting married. If you want to wear white, then by all means, wear white. It is your day!
2007-03-13 15:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all, you shoudl wear the dress that you want, especially since its his first wedding. If you are feeling a bit insecure about doing the whole white dress thing though, how about a blush color or champagne color, lots of designers are making dresses in other colors now, that are fluffy wedding dresses, just not white.
Here are a few
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2834&prodgroup=10
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2840&prodgroup=10
http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=2660&prodgroup=10
the list goes on and on.
Good luck!
2007-03-13 16:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wear what you are most comfortable with. Remember it is your wedding and a dress in some cases is only a symbol purity but think of it as your love is pure therefore you should wear WHITE!! You go girl. Congrats... It is your day and you should enjoy it. Do not dwell on others remarks or thoughts.
2007-03-13 15:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Nay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are more than welcome to wear white and fluffy if that is what you want. To say that only virgins or first time brides may wear white is a tradition that, in the year 2007, has long been outgrown. Have a ball!
2007-03-13 16:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the rules of wearing white at a wedding are not followed anymore. if you want to wear white and it would make you happy, do it. when i got married, it was my first and my husband's second, and i wore an ivory dress cause white is just not my color. so there. wear what you want.
2007-03-13 23:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by nenarmz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have the wedding of your dreams no matter what. These days tradition is just about what you want to uphold or not so know one will judge you for it.
Where white and have an awesome time.
2007-03-13 15:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by bushbaby_rsa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you should wear white. It doesn't matter if you or him or both of you had been married before; you can wear white if this is what you want. It's not wrong unless YOU feel it is. Congratulations.
2007-03-13 17:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear whatever you want. I've been to wedding with pregnant brides & brides whose children were in the wedding & they all wore white. It's your wedding, do what makes you happy.
2007-03-13 15:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by layla983 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what you please your wedding not anyone else's.. this is my 2nd and last marriage .. and i choose a off white dress he was never married and i was..he wanted the big wedding and we choose for me to wear off white and i found a two tone off white dress and it was beautiful.. so try that have fun its your day wear what you feel is best for you...
2007-03-13 15:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋