This boy asked me to be his girlfriend, I said Maybe, then we texted each other for 4 days and i introduced him to my friends. A week later he asked me to be his girlffriend again when we were out clubbing, I said Yes. We were texting each other for 2 days. On the 2nd day he broke up with me by text. He said "dont get me wrong but i wanna break up with you, its nothing personal, its just that im not ready for a relationship yet, it was my mistake to ask you out while im not ready, i really like u, i dont like doing this but its not the right time for me xxx', I answered back saying " I understand u cos it was very fast decission for us and bcuz u told me you always rush things with girls n make mistakes n eventualy get hurt, you said you wanted to get to know me more bcuz we may not fit each other, its obvious we rushed a bit, so u still wanna keep in touch or nothing at all?"
He didnt reply back. Why did he break up with me? What did i do?
2007-03-13 08:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by babycake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how should i act if we are in a club at the same time? we all hangout in the same clubs...
do i ignore him?
I ASKED HIM IF HE STILL WANTS TO KEEP IN TOUCH, HE DIDNT ANSWER, THAT MEANS HE DOESNT WANT TO KEEP IN TOUCH. RIGHT?
2007-03-13 08:39:42 · update #1
dont worry ur pretty lil head about that.....move on
2007-03-13 08:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by da_last_donpapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not something someone can answer and be 100% right. He's the only one who knows his reasons. Try asking him. If he still doesn't text back then he probably doesn't want the subject brought up. In my opinion, I think he was telling the truth, he might be just scared of relationships. Unfortunately you could have been the rebound girl, depending on how resent his other relationship was. It's good you understood where he was coming from in the beginning. You probably didn't do anything wrong so don't worry.
2007-03-13 08:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, im sorry. =[ well it sounds to me as if he is a bit immature and he is most deffinately not ready for a relationship. It was not your fault that he broke up with you if he did it like that. He even told you straight up. Dont feel bad about it, its not your fault at all.
&&with him not texting you is perfectly normal... Just wait it out and see what happens.
wish you the best of luck. =]
2007-03-13 08:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥DANyELLE. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE FREAKIN TOLD YOU WHY HE BROKE UP WITH YOU!!! YOU MENTIONED IT IN YOUR OWN FREAKIN QUESTION!!!
"He said "dont get me wrong but i wanna break up with you, its nothing personal, its just that im not ready for a relationship yet, it was my mistake to ask you out while im not ready, i really like u, i dont like doing this but its not the right time for me xxx'"
IT WAS'NT YOUR FAULT!! GAWD!!! Dont be so insecure. Geez...
2007-03-13 08:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you believe him that he wasn't ready for a relationship. Sounds like a nice guy. most guys would have waited until they got you into the sack and then break the news after wards.
2007-03-13 08:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he either dosnt like you at all or that he just wasnt ready for a girl like you or your not his type plus if he is gonna be like that your way toooooooooo good for him and you could do waaaaaaay better
So keep your head high there is someone out there for everyone
2007-03-13 08:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you said-you did nothing wrong. Sounds like he is a guy who likes to have a "girlfriend" but does not want anything serious. Move on.
2007-03-13 08:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he liked you and that overcame that fact that he wasn't ready for that. He had a chance with you, but he took his mind off of the fact that he wasn't ready. He never thought about it.
2007-03-13 08:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too immature for there to be a really good answer to this question. Move on. Don't be upset. Stay friendly.
2007-03-13 10:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want someone who does not want you.Do you want to
beg his approval,plead his return,you need to realize he is showing you who he is by not replying to you by texting.
Imagine if you got together and he was to respond to
something much more important.Let it go...
Do not rush in, you seem desperate then,cool it.
You seem to him like a obligation.
2007-03-13 08:31:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen a boy breaks up wit u, it doesnt mean tht its ur fault...maybe he really cant have a relationship or maybe hes not ready...he prob end up regretting not having u its his loss
2007-03-13 08:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋