doesn't like me the same way. who should I believe or what should I do? I'm sick of pretending. I wanna take action but is that a good idea? help!!!
2007-03-13 08:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by lTremble_Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But I'm a chicken xD
I'm afraid of rejection so I'm afraid to ask him out. tell me how to get over that or how to approach the situation?
2007-03-13 08:24:29 · update #1
Either just ask him how he feels bout you, flirt w/ him and see how he reacts or just tell him u like him and see what he does
2007-03-13 08:24:59 · answer #1 · answered by da_love _doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a guy too and i once thought i liked him. But i didn't say anything to him in case i ruined our friendship. But a couple of months later he told me that he thought he liked me...We had a chat and decided it was better if we didn't get together because it would be aqaurd when we had to end the relationship...I we liked each other because of the fact that were so close we could tell each other anything and felt safe around each other and that's what we wanted in a relationship. I would believe any of what other people are saying its could just be gossip.. Instead why don't you ask him or just have a look in magazines about his body language towards you. Or even asked one of his friends that you know you can trust...Hope i helped x x
2007-03-13 15:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by babeybabey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be concerned with what others say. If you would like more, then just be polite and ask him to go somewhere with you, like a walk in the park or somewhere romantic. Don't be too forward, but feel the situation out and go for it. What do you have to lose? If he is really a friend, he will still be there in that capacity, but if you don't feel comfortable still just being friends, at least you know. Good luck
2007-03-13 15:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him. Otherwise he won't know u like him and here look at these:
1. If you tell him and he likes u back then YAY
2. If you tell him and he doesnt like u then he wont be mad. In fact, he will probably grow to like you, b/c when I found out this guy liked me, and I didnt, I started to anyway.
3. If you don't tell him, there will never be a relationship that is more then friendly
2007-03-13 15:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~HockeyChik~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is to ask him. You could tell him you really enjoy his friendship. Lately, you have been thinking about more and ask him if he thinks he would ever be interested too. Let him know you don't want it to hurt your relationship and that if he says no, you will drop the subject.
2007-03-13 15:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by iceemama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from expierence just stay friends with him, even if he does like u, it's not the same when bestfriends try to become more, ur friendship doesnt stay the same, all of a sudden everything changes & not only did u lose ur boyfriend but u lost ur best friend too
2007-03-13 15:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. just from personal experience. let him make the first move. If you really just can't wait, start dropping little hints.. little ones, now. Believe me, I had a guy friend that i started liking, i told him, and now it's weird between us.
compliment him, maybe.then wait and see what he does. If there is no response, stop while you're ahead.
2007-03-13 15:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by WndrfulMe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a friendly date with him, just 2 of u and than ask him out...
2007-03-13 15:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust your own feelings. Ask him out and see what happens.
Good luck!
2007-03-13 15:22:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask him because he might like u back...you never know
2007-03-13 15:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by yowhatup=) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋