me and my bf have been 2gerther for 6 months now, and he has this bestfriend that's a female; and 2 make a long story short i want 2 no if he every had feelings for her. he never told me how they mat. all he told me is that they are best friends and that one day they just stopped talking and then the next thing u no they talking again. he told me a story about how they had lost touch with each other and how he want looking for her. that sound really romantic to me. maybe i am just jealous. i want to ask him questions be what if i am wrong about the whole thing. he might get mad or something, or it might create a whole other arguement.
2007-03-13 08:19:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lets see...you have been together for 6 months so I assume there are feelings there and you are friends too
I would say talk to him about how you are feeling about this...his friend and your questions about his friend and him.
If you truly are friends and love each other these kind of talks should not be that hard.
You know you need to be best friends too, not just in love.
be cool...
2007-03-13 08:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a very great friend - a guy, and I had no feelings for him. But he did. But we continued being friends till he said he can't handle it. Then I gave him space, and we lost touch for a while till I wrote to ask how he is doing. Anyways, our friendship has been on and off because of his feelings, but I know, to me, he will always hold a special friend-place in my heart. It is possible your bf and she (one of them) likes the other...and it is also possible they are simply great platonic friends. I am sorry I don't have a definite answer. Follow your gut feeling.
2007-03-13 15:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋