I love my bf with all my heart but this is someting I really want us to do together. I can't help it... I like to look at the ladies. Something tells me that i should drop the subject but a part of me like to tease him alott.:p any advice?
2007-03-13 08:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by TinkerBellI 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he thinks you're testing him, that's what mine used to think. But he finally told me that he's worried I may enjoy it too much so we haven't gone to one yet mostly because I just left it alone after a while.
2007-03-13 08:18:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is a serious issue for you, then ask him seriously... don't do it in a teasing manner because he prolly thinks you're just messing with him.
He would probably rather see you strip, is the deal, and many girls would consider you lucky that your boyfriend isn't all about the strip clubs :).
In any event, he'll go with you if he thinks it could lead to ... good things... ;) so maybe that's an angle you could work up for him... if the strippers would turn you on and then he'd get some action? Yeah, I'd go to strip club for that.
2007-03-13 15:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you to go drop the subject as it is sure to only cause more problems. Chances are that he doesn't want you to go cause most women who go with there significant others get very jealous no matter how many times they say they won't. Or that they won't let it bother them it still does.
2007-03-13 15:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its abnormal. I go with my boyfriend all the time to the strip club. At first he thought it was weird but then it actually turned him on to have me there watching the strippers. Besides, if he dosen't want to go, go by yourself or with a group of friends. Just have fun!
2007-03-13 15:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by narzsenior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably just enjoy the stripper teasing him,, have you tried this at home?? put a chair in the middle of a room, get a outfit,, dont let him touch you or you touch him, might prove to be a hot evening,
2007-03-13 15:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by rich2481 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He must have a personal reason for not wanting to go. If you want to go that bad find a girlfriend to go with!
2007-03-13 15:19:44 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him its amature night and you want to try out! If he says it OK to check it out then you know you've got a real pervert for a bf.
2007-03-13 15:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by stupido#1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are not bi? Can't see why you would want to do that. I would imagine that most women go on the invitation of their boyfriends, just to please them. He might start wondering about you.
2007-03-13 15:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey life is meant to be fun...and this is something you can both experience together =) have looooots of fun
2007-03-13 15:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, my husband and I did and we had crazy sex afterward.
2007-03-13 15:17:51 · answer #10 · answered by ste.phunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋