My friend and I use to date a year ago. We stopped dating because I wanted a relationship and she didn't. She made it perfectly clear that she wanted to be just friends. We continue to be friends to this day. But here is the funny part. Whenever I begin to date someone new and let her know. She gets real sad and insists on meeting the new lady and then she wants to stop by my house and give me massages and offers up the goods. But once the new lady doesn't work out and I question how about she and I get together, she insists she doesn't want a Boyfriend. Is she holding on to me until someone she thinks is better come along? Should I kick her butt to the curb or continue to get the free goods?
2007-03-13 08:10:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks Ladies.
2007-03-13 08:17:47 · update #1
Thanks all!! I'm kicking her to the curb!
2007-03-13 08:27:02 · update #2
Refuse the free goods, that'll make her feel bad. It seems like this girl is just trying to hold on to you because she doesn't want anyone else to have you while she has no one either! She just wnats you to keep wanting her, so she has you within reach at all times! Girls can be conniving, I use to play this game! I would reject her and tell her you just want to be friends and that you want to date other people, don't fall for her acting sad! Trust me, rejection is the best way to get her off your back!
2007-03-13 08:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being played like a dime store drum. You got a so-called friend who is telling you this and that just to keep you around but how many other instruments is that hoochie playing while you wait? Time to move on and find a good woman who can be open and honest with you so that you can build a wholesome relationship.
Here's an idea, if it's good for the goose it's good for the gander so feed her line back to her and enjoy the benefits. It's just like an open relationship where you can get your rocks off and have a good woman on the side too. Could be fun...
2007-03-13 08:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by rashawn4u2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. She wants her cake and eat it too. You May be able to salvage your friendship, but you should stop letting her give you massages and give you her goods. If you are going to be friends than be friends ONLY!
2007-03-13 08:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by ivy-girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While the free goods may be fun for now they are also preventing you from finding a girl who really likes you, w ho will want to date you and who will give up the "goods" for the right reasons.
Tell her you want a relationship. If she doesn't then cut off the fun and find someone who wants you.
2007-03-13 08:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, she is holding on to you until she finds someone that is better for her. She, simply, does not want you to find someone first. Let the goods go and get on to something new! Would you take her back anyway, if she is keeping you as second best to whoever she meets next?
2007-03-13 08:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly, are you like this everyplace you go? you're starting to be to be ocd (obsessive compulsive affliction). you are able to visit to healthcare professional to get drugs for this. if its only on your room, you may only be over-retaining of your stuff, surprisingly in the adventure that your loved ones is often in to in. i would not probably difficulty approximately except you're continuously strolling around fixing stuff no remember the place you're (public bogs, movie theaters, walmart...).
2016-11-25 00:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a jealous friend, you've given her chances to be with you but she won't.
Ignore her and her whining and date whomever you wish!
2007-03-13 08:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously indecisive and doesn't care about your feeling and you don't want to waste your time with someone like that.
Kick her to the curb!!!!
2007-03-13 08:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
foo, u gotsta tell ol gurl 2 go n git da hell on, git on up out yo mf'n grillllllll n sheeeiiiiiittttttttttt, fo rillz. ol gurl aint keepin it rill, fo sho. tell her she gotsta chek hersef b4 she be wrekkin hersef. wurdddddddddddd
2007-03-13 08:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋