Before he got shot we had a huge argument and he is now dating his girlfreind he was with in the past for three years. My question is should i still go visit him? Will he even want to see me? What will his girlfreind say?
2007-03-13 08:09:01 · 22 answers · asked by ~N3VA W0ULD HAV3 MAD3 IT~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he has a girlfriend already is not a good idea to visit him...it'll be really awkward if she's there.
2007-03-13 08:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Yesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's appropriate to visit your ex-b.f when he's already with another girlfriend and they're together now for quiet many years.If your goal is just to show your concern when he has been shot,then you can maybe try to send his girl friend a message showing your sympathy.Through this way,you maybe find out if she or your ex- will be willing to accept your presence.
2007-03-13 08:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Carla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read your past questions and noticed you are only 14, and you thought you were pregnant,,,I am assuming it was from this boyfriend. I'm sure you still care for this boy who is 17,,,but he now has his old girlfriend back. Send a card to his home or drop it off there. You need to listen to your mom she only wants a good life for you. Take Care of you. =)
2007-03-13 08:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stay away you split up its over and unless your usually on friendly terms with the guy then Id just stay away. If however he is now your friend then ok send a bunch of flowers or a bag of grapes!
2007-03-13 08:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jo. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yess1 this is the time when hes most vonerable, if you say you wanna forget about the past and be friends im sure he will understand by nopt going is going to make you feel sad inside and badd and you might not forgive yourself, if you go at least you know you've tried, make sure his girlfriend thinks its a visit and nothing else! go for it girl
2007-03-13 08:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by ...x...sxy ting...x... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put yourself in his shoes would you want an ex to turn up unexpectedly? then think if you was still his girlfriend and some ex came to visit him how would you feel? would you want to see any of your old flames in hospital with your current love one beside you?
i would just move on in your life if he wants you to know how he is then his got your number and will assure you he is fine ,if he doesn't ...well then you know where you stand.
2007-03-13 08:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by AnswerGeek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still speak to him then yes go visit. If not pass a card to a family member or get them to ask him if he'd mind a visit...
Hope helps!.
2007-03-13 08:12:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could ask his parents, sister whoever to ask him, if he would mind if you visit. Alternatively you could always send a letter to him in Hosp and see what the reaction is........His g/f does not have to be there, does she? Good Luck.
2007-03-13 08:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by biggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should c him if ur still friends. it helps when all the friends & family come 2 c u in the hospital. talk 2 his g/f first & c if it would cause a problem.
i hope he gets better.
2007-03-13 08:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by army brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u sho0t him? xD
go visit him its kinda nice but just stay away from his bed and
try to visit in a short time coz u may get in a fight with his GF and then u will shoot her xD sry XP
2007-03-13 08:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋