im the slowest erpson in ym class and people make fun of me for it shoudl i be mad at them?
2007-03-13 08:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by Amy H 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
you may just need a little extra help in school. talk to your parents about it. Kids can be soooo mean, I went through it in school too. Just try and ignore them , trying to fit in wth people who dont deserve your aknolagement will tear your attention away from your studies too. who says your the slowest person anyway, your probably very good at some things that they cant do. Just make a couple of very good friends, you dont want people around you that will stab you in the back and bring you negative energy anyway.
you will do just fine, It just takes some kids a little longer to learn. Did you know that Albert Einstien was learning disabled???? now thats amazing huh? just hang in there and do your best. If you know your putting forth the effert then you should be proud, no matter what the outcome. good luck.
2007-03-13 08:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can get mad, but it won't achieve anything.
There's something you're better at than anyone else in your class. It might be a sport, it might be music, it could be being a good listener, it could be being funny. The fact that you're posting this question suggests that you are perhaps more thoughtful than other people, asking if it's OK to get mad instead of getting angry right away!
I used to teach drama and there were a lot of kids in my class who would be called 'slow' academically but were brilliant in the class. One was a great dancer, one had an ability to make everyone laugh, and another always cheered us up on a miserable day because he was so friendly and smiling.
If you don't know what your outstanding ability is, you could make it your project to find out. It'll distract you from getting mad as well as making you feel better about yourself.
Good luck.
2007-03-13 08:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by chips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is rude to make fun of people.
However being mad doesn't accomplish anything but get you more upset.
A better plan of action is to keep yourself busy with things that you are good at or enjoy. By doing this you will perfect your abilities and by having success with one thing you will learn how to have success with other things.
Also when people notice you having fun they will notice YOU more - not what you do not do as well as they might do.
2007-03-13 08:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Axel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he do this plenty? Or is it only whilst the two one in each and every of you have huge arguments? i think of that technically specific, it fairly is verbal abuse. yet a lot of human beings say issues they do no longer recommend interior the warmth of the 2d, and the biggest situation you're able to do to restoration the placement is communicate approximately it whilst the two one in each and every of you're no longer struggling with. My boyfriend says comparable stuff to me, and it actual hurts and makes me disenchanted, yet i comprehend that he does no longer recommend it and could make an apology later. attempt asking him why he referred to as you the names that he did, and what you need to do next time around to assist save his temper in verify so which you will proceed speaking devoid of it escalating right into a combat. My boyfriend says that he frequently gets to that factor using fact he appears like i'm no longer listening to something he says and it makes him mad using fact he would not opt to harm me yet he's in order that annoyed. that would not make it ok, whether that's going to assist you know the place he's coming from and perchance make it take place much less. stable luck!! :)
2016-09-30 21:09:06 · answer #4 · answered by riopel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mad, maybe so.. But not hurt, it is their insecurity or immaturity. Read about Albert Einstein in his early years. He spoke very slowly and it often took him a while to respond to people. He did poorly in school and still became one our greatest mathematical minds. " The only thing that interfers with my learning is my education. " Albert Einstein.
2007-03-13 08:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the immortal words of Forest Gump, "Stupid is as stupid does". And he turned out just fine.
No, don't be mad. No sense lowering yourself to their level.
Just be yourself, try as hard as you are able, and the rest will fall into place.
2007-03-13 10:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like that are the stupid ones. Ignore them because they are not worth even thinking about.
2007-03-13 08:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by me_myself_&_eye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not mad but they shouldnt do that, rather yu take it seriously or not it still affects you. where is your teacher? just tell them you are a perfectionist and have to really think about things before you answer. or it takes you just a little bit longer to understand things thats all.
2007-03-13 08:26:11 · answer #8 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have every right to be mad. Sue them in court for that.
2007-03-13 09:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting angry at them will do no good. Just ignore them. Live your own life to its fullest.
Do the best you can
2007-03-13 08:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by lochmessy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋