ok, so I like this girl that is a year younger than me...and she knows, ...problem is she found out from the wrong person...now my friend that told her said that she said no, but he is usually full of it most of the time, also she likes someone else, but idk who, or if it is me....i reallk dont know....should i talk with her tomorrow and tell her how I really feel and give it a shot..i know i have nothing to lose...or should I let her go with out an effort and let her be happy like I want her to be...what do I do???
...i know i asked this question already...but I only got 3 answers...i need help...what do i do??? she means alot to me, and I want her to be happy
2007-03-13 08:00:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just take your time with it men and slowly make your move
2007-03-13 08:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally go after her. Girls like the feeling of being chased by a guy, as much as it may suck for you.. Make her feel special, tell her you like her ( most peoples interest peaks for another person once they know they like them) So even if she doesn't know if she likes you, if you keep putting in the effort she will feel flattered and notice you more. However, sometimes girls are the most crueliest people ever, so guard yourself at the same time, don't be too vulnerable. Ask her if she wants to do something, if she flat out says no, move on, shes a ***** but if she has a good reason and would like to another time, don't give up.
Anyways hope this helps haha.. Byee<3
2007-03-13 08:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this.. how many lifes to you have to live? and what do you got to lose?
I live my life like this: If i were to die tomorrow would i have any regrets about ANYTHING? If the answer is no, ive been sucessfull for the day! if the ansswer is yes, then i thing of ways to improve it.
If you ask yourself this question about this girl, you would have regrets, and chances are you will always think back and wonder what it would be like to tell her these things, what she would have said, what shes thinking.. and so on..
my advice- tell her how you feel, and do not ever leave these things up to friends. dont stalk her, but be genuine and tell her how you feel and respect how she feels back. understand that she may not feel the same way back for you. If thats the case, take this as a learning experience.. you wont find miss right the first time! it takes lots of trys.!
go for it! and good luck!
2007-03-13 08:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by crazy_chicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can tell her how you feel about her and see how she acts and what she says but also let her know that you care dearly for her and want her to be happy no matter what her answer is, and that you want the two of you to still be friends.
Somethings dating your friend can hurt the relationship cause you just can't really go back to being just friends again... if things don't work out. But, on the other hand its can be great. Cause that's someone that knows you and what your into and your likes and dislikes about things.
But you know that you won't be happy till you find out anyway.... So, I say just talk to her. Tell her, then you will know how she really feels about you.
So..... What are you waiting for..... Call her up and talk to her don't wait till tomorrow!!!!
2007-03-13 08:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by vamps&flowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you can do is stop sending your friends to do your bidding. Girls like someone who can hold their own and are confident. Take the bull by the horns and talk with her yourself, but don't put all of your feelings out there. Start slow and get to know her. You might be surprised by what you learn.
2007-03-13 08:05:38 · answer #5 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! You want her to be happy, you mentioned, well you're both probably too young to know what makes you happy, but you both know what the word regret means.
You're only young once. You only get one life. Make the best of it and go for her! Even if she does like someone else, she's not married to them and if you get shot down, who cares! Go for it!!!!!!!!!
Good luck!
2007-03-13 08:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by CharlotteDenee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never rely on someone else. Plus a girl really likes it when you have the guts to ask her for yourself. And you will never know for sure unless you do. Also, if you want her to be happy, you need to find out for yourself what she really wants. Good luck.
2007-03-13 08:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES if thats what you want, then go for it.
dont like you idiot buddy talk to girls for you, even if you did not know he was going to. I would smack him upside the head for being a c*ck block.
talk to her, tell her that you like her, and say "i dont know what (your friends name here) told you the other day, but i just want you to know that I...__________"
use that format to fix things, and take it from there.
because now she sees you the way Your friend portrayed you, and not the way you would have portrayed yourself.
so, fix it, or leave it. just dont do nothing and sit around wondering "what if."
2007-03-13 08:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know each other well enough to carry on a conversation I would talk to her.
Tell her how you feel as in you would like to take her out and get to know her better.
This way you will know from her how she really feels and if she likes you and wants to go out with you.
Always best to talk to someone in person and find out from them instead of having a go-between.
be cool...
2007-03-13 08:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is a year a big deal? You should definetly go for it, that's what dating is about, right? Nothing permanent.
2007-03-13 08:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it..if she is happy wit someone else youll know u tried instead of askin yo self everyday "i wonder what would o fhappened if i went for ..."
2007-03-13 08:04:20 · answer #11 · answered by mesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋