Let me rephase my question, Ive been with my man for four years, and our sex life was absolutly amazing. I was totaly into trying new things with him and wasnt shy about it. Ive been with him for 4 years we still have a great sex life; however, I am more shy now like for example I use to love to put on strip tease for him and now when he asks me to do something like that I turn red and get giggly and shy away from doing that, Im not insecure about my body Im 5ft2 at 124lbs and I stay extremly active alot of people who answer this before says I might be insecure or gained weight, thats not the case, I would like to know what would make someone so shy after 4 years and I am totaly attracted to this man in every way imaginable.
2007-03-13 07:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There has to be some event or comment which has suddenly made you unsure of yourself. Think back to the last time you felt free about these issues and remember ahead slowly so that you can remember is someone made a comment or there was an event that stuck with you and is causing this uncertainty. You could also try to see a therapist to get over this or just work on it with your boyfriend and yourself on your own. P.S. It may not have been something he said or did, it could be anyone (most likely someone you are close to). Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-13 08:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, you didn't say what age you are but changing hormone levels can make a difference.
#2, the answer for this is deep within you. Ask yourself the question and write down the first answer you think of - no matter how silly it sounds. Then write down any other answers that resonate with you. Think about it for a while. I'll bet the first answer will get to the heart of the problem.
Good luck! :)
2007-03-13 14:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was to guess, I would say that you made the mistake of seeing yourself do something like this in the mirror or on film and that made you nervous or feel silly. You just need to remember that you are doing it for him and not for you. You need to enjoy the fact that he likes to see you, watch you and enjoy you still after four years. Dance for him tonight if you can, and make him crazy, if he comes towards you, push him away, make him beg, you are in control at that point, so have fun with it. Forget shy, get raunchy for him if that is what he likes and make him beg...have fun...
2007-03-13 15:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you are just past that stage, it really doesnt make any sense why all of the sudden you are shy, unless you have not done it in a very long time, tell him to give you one and that you will do it after him...that might work, or cover his eyes and let him feel you while you are dancing, thats fun too, good luck
2007-03-13 14:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old i got the less i would do in bed when your young you will try anything as you get older things you did before seem silly to you now
2007-03-13 15:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have developed deeper feelings for him, besides physical attraction.
2007-03-13 14:58:06 · answer #6 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur fallin in luv wid him again lol
2007-03-13 14:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋