ok so ive been friends with this guy for about 2 years-maybe more, and i like him as more than a friend now..how can i get his attention so he thinks of me as more than a friend?! he has another friend who is some trampy girl, but i think me and him could have somthing special...WHAT DO I DO?! how do i get him to like me?!
2007-03-13 07:52:52 · 14 answers · asked by Becca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 years!!!??? I think if you try to get his attention after all this time he'll think you're retarded. He already has the trampy chick. How do you plan to top her? That's what you'd probably have to do. Are you prepared to do tricks for this dude?
2007-03-13 07:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until the trampy girl makes a mistake, or the next time he has a problem with his trampy girl, tell him how you wouldn't repeat her mistakes and all the things you could do as a couple. Maybe he will get the message.
2007-03-13 07:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with him. He is your friend after all. Friends tell eachother secrets, right? If you never tell him, you'll just always wonder what could have happened if you did. Then in the future, you might regret not ever telling him. And if you do tell him, it's either a yes or no, but taking chances is what life is about. He might like you back.
About a year ago, someone liked me, and I was kind of scared to tell him I liked him back cuz I was thinking of bad things that can happen if I progressed our relationship. I never thought of what good could come out of it, which was stupid of me. I wish I told him I liked him at the time, cuz he's moved on now, and I still like him.
2007-03-13 08:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by j_u_l_i_4_n_n_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you have known this guy for awhile, and you want him to like you ... but you can never FORCE a person to like you. But hopefully he does like you! *Crosses Fingers*
Well Talk to him, Flirt a little. There are some easy ways to flirt with a guy, and not be a tramp doing it. When you talk touch his arm or something. Laugh at his silly jokes, Look into his eyes, smile at him when you catch him looking at you, let him catch you looking at him, just talk a lot to him.
If he starts showing interest more then a friend, then try asking him if he wants a girlfriend one day...or what kind of girl he likes... then if he describes someone like you (and they will do this if they like you) then be like telling him who you like, and describe him.
You could also try asking him out.
You may fear rejection, and if he says NO then that's better then never knowing, at least then you will know what he feels.
Or ask him if you could ever be more then friends.
Tramping girls are dumb, and usually get the men, but only for sex, they are never for sure things, they don't make good wifes or girls you can bring home to mom. The nice girls are the ones you bring home...or the saying goes.
Hope all works out. Keep us posted!
2007-03-13 07:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is just maybe a little more "friendly" or tell him that he looks cute every now and again. What i HAVE done is ask him if he could come over an help you with your homework or invite two couples over and then have him come over too and watch movies... he will feel left out and then maybe turn to you for some lovin' lol ~you never know~
2007-03-13 07:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by sexy_golfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totaly typical!! every girl has this problem and i hate having it even though it's always funner to dream about a cute boy you've had your eye on then no boy at all, right? well anyway to get his attention, just be yourself, but not too loud adn obnoxious or else u'll scare him away...its happened to me alot dont worry. adn dont feel like you need to be a slut to get his attention either, that girl who he hangs out with maybe a slut but that just means that he has no respect for her, play hard to get adn dont always be there when he expects you. he'll soon learn that he misses not having you at his every whimb and he'll discover those feelings he has for you. if that doesnt work , i'm not gonna say drop him like he's hot, cus thats harder to do then you wuld think. just simply flirt, dont tellhim you love him or you like him until you kno he wont get scared away. make eye contact, giggle frequently, touch his arm lightly when egaging in converstation. just simple little flirting techniques, but dont hide your obnoxious laughter or anything like that just be yourselfwith some cute add ons:)
2007-03-13 08:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and just tell him how you feel, and forget this trampy gyal.....just show him why your better than her, and that he'd be better off with you. However, don't act like something your not, be yourself, and he will lurve you for it.....go for it girl! x
2007-03-13 08:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by NoName 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just write him an email or a letter telling him your feelings for him. if you don't think that's a good idea talk to him about relationships like say "oh i wish i had a boyfriend i'm soo lonely." stuff like that!
2007-03-13 07:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by elizatinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bust a MOVE girl...before the trampy girl lands her man(or is that YOUR man)...
2007-03-13 07:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just tell him how you feel. maby he feels the same way but was to scared to tell you and if he dosent like you then he dosent like you but if he tells you he dosent want ot talk to you agen thenhe wasent worth it..
2007-03-13 07:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by rawrxgummixworms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋