my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...when he screws up again.....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.
2007-03-13 07:42:17 · 12 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its a long story why we broke up in the first place.you can read it on one of my other questions i had posted months ago..thanks everyone for all your answers some of them are lol...
2007-03-13 07:52:51 · update #1
dont go out with if she is going to do that to the other guy she is going to do the same to you
2007-03-13 07:45:36 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is don't go back to her. If you do you are retarded. She left you on a whim..and now this other dude treats her bad she wants you back like your second place in a contest. She was probably banging him behind your back man.
What she don't wanna hurt him ? She just jumped up and left your azz one day for this other jackazz...She didn't spare you from the pain why does she care if she hurts him ?
Seems to me she is only using you man...get out when you can.
Why don't she just leave him like she left you ?. She is leading you on and will never break up with this dude.. just ignore her and move on with your life before she comes back to you an messes you all up again. She's a hoe and is not worth your time man.
2007-03-13 14:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not so sure to be honest, because how can she currently be in a relationship with a guy, yet not wanna hurt her feelings because she likes you? I think that's great if you two figured out you DO wanna be with each other, but as for the guy she is currently with? I feel bad for him. She could tell him the straight out truth and though it may hurt him, he would probably respect her more. That way also, she wouldn't seem so careless and disrespectful if she cut things quick and was instantly with you.
2007-03-13 14:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's a big ole' mess. :( The best thing to do is for her to be honest with him about breaking up. She just has to tell him that things are over. Then, the two of you should keep things on the DL for a few weeks at least. That's the respectful thing to do. She should NOT tell him she's leaving him for you.
2007-03-13 14:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be honest, isn't that a novel idea. Just tell him that she was wrong to begin the relationship, that she was rebounding and it was completely unfair to him and she needs to make it right and end the relationship, because he deserves someone that truly cares for him.
2007-03-13 14:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she should sit him down and telling him the truth and what is going on. Might as well get it over with eventhough she's gonna have a tough time but she got herself in this situation in the first place. Good luck !
2007-03-13 14:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell the guy that they are better as friends and that it was never meant to be. Now on the other hand you shouldn't go back out with her b/c she is not committful
2007-03-13 14:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by morris_bcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she should just break the news to him because the longer she waits to tell him the more he'll get hurt.
2007-03-13 14:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by phantomdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly wanted out she would find a way. Sounds like she is stringing both of you along
2007-03-13 14:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by apark3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did she break up with you? Maybe she can get a few tips from that...
2007-03-13 14:46:13 · answer #10 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋