ok so it was my senior yr in high and i hadent dated since i was a freshman , its not that i was ugly or a looser bc trust me im far from ugly , well like most of us i was enjoying my single by partying and keeping my options opened, i met lots of pretty girls but yet non seem to satisfy me, i would set my standards high ,which meant ; i wouldnt date someone "easy" which i knew a lot of . well i would always see this gorgeous girl walk down the ramp while i would walk up it on my way to 3rd period, at the time i thought she was atleast a junior in hs but i eneded up finding out she was a freshman which made me stop even thinking about her bc of my age and hers.... well to make a long story short, i graduated hs , a few days later i was pretty bumb bc i relized i really liked her and id never see her again, well one night i ran into her at a smoothie shop ,we made eye contact so i went up to her and finally talked to her , we both felt the same way , and now its been 6months.
2007-03-13 07:38:57 · 24 answers · asked by hotguybmx760 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure it's "illegal" but if both sets of parents-mainly hers are OK with it then I really don't see a problem. Although that is a HUGE age difference not to mention the fact that each of you are at different points in your life your in college and she is still in high school....
2007-03-13 07:43:42 · answer #1 · answered by janellekel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel, it's been six months in ur relationship n u seem quite serious about the girl. So, in my opinion, the age difference is not that big a deal when u 2 hav a good understanding. Plus, it's only 3 yrs, so I'd say go on with it. A 3 yr age diff wud b a stupid reason to brek up if u realy like her.
PS: make sure she likes u 2 n that she's not jus foolin aroun wid an "older guy".
Best o' luck man
2007-03-13 07:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by dash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my fiance is 24 and I am 17. We met in church when I was 15. He is very respectful to me. We haven't had real sex. I am a virgin. This my first and only relationship. But people are not accepting of this relationship.
I have had to hide this from my dad. My mom knows and because he is a childhood friend accepts it but we keep it secret. My dad is so strict.
If she has a dad like mine he might try to have you put in jail.
The others are right, in a way. I read an article in my local paper about how many men are on the sex offender list who are in relationships like you and me. So be careful!
Also, don't be so superficial. Make sure you love her because she is nice and kind, not just beautiful. It fades.
I hate when guys only are concerned for my looks. My fiance is very kind and sweet and understanding. You should be too.
2007-03-13 07:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by honeysistagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 15 and i dated a 19 year old. We dated for 8 month's too. So no i dont' think there's anything wrong with it. As long as that girls mature enough to handle it and is mentally at even with you. If you feel as if it isn't wrong than forget everyone else. They dont' know her and they dont' know you. They cant say it's not right because there's a age difference. Age has nothing to do with the persons grown up status or personality. This is no one's business but yours and hers. If other people dont' like it that's their problem because their too closed minded and narrow.
2007-03-13 07:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as this does not involve anything sexual until she is legal age there is no problem for you. A three year age difference is nothing new. The fact that she is underage would be my only concern.
2007-03-13 07:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
technically it is illegal, but i dont think its wrong... i have done much worse things with guys much older than that! so as long as she is in consent and doesnt turn you in then you are good to go buddy! plus i think it depends what state youre in cuz some states the legal age is 16 and some is 18 i think... look into it to be sure
2007-03-13 07:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by hot stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great you found someone. Just be very very careful. Sometimes things get very heated. She is still 16 and still in school. I hope you have her parents approval.? Good Luck and always, God Bless You Both.
2007-03-13 07:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by grams40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think much of it. It is againt the lae tho. So keep it Rated PG k.... Cuz if u broke up with her and u guys had sex and u hurt her she could take it to the police and yea u know what will happen then. So like i said keep it PG. KK...
2007-03-13 07:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dint personally think it is that bad but it is illegal you could possibly go to jail . make sure you are not sleeping with her and also think about the maturity differences
2007-03-13 07:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you but you'll know it's a bad idea when you find yourself in jail.
2007-03-13 08:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by allforit420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋