I am 15 and he is 15 too, i think that i am in love but i sort of feel pressured to tho... help i don't know what to do...
2007-03-13 07:36:15 · 8 answers · asked by sexy_golfer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when the "man" is actually a man. He's still a kid, just like you. Don't have sex this young, you may think you know what you want, but you don't. You're a teen, you have a lot of hormone stuff going on... you'll regret it if you have sex now. Just wait a while, I swear it won't kill you... I waited until I was 18 and I KNEW beyond a doubt that I loved the guy.. I was with him for over a year before we had sex (and now we're engaged and we've been together for almost 5 years). And all the other girls I went to high school with who just couldn't wait to have sex are now pregnant by some guy they don't know, or they really really wish that they would have waited. I think the only girls who don't regret it are the ones that have a TON of sex partners.
Just wait until you're ready, you don't sound like you're ready to take on all the responsibilities of sex just yet...
2007-03-13 07:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all, 15 is very young to be having sex. But lately its a trend LOL. But it would be alot meaningful,better and maybe even appreciable later on in life. so if you wait' that will also prove to yourself, that in fact your boyfriend is really in love with you! cause he's willing to wait for you. That's Love.....and if your feeling pressured into doing so then your not ready. And that's still okay! Take as much time as you need. Remember its your body! And you can be stingy with it whenever you want! you don't have nothing to lose accept him, And when he falls off (boyfriend) another will come running........
2007-03-13 14:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready, you're not ready. Don't feel obligated to do so out of "pressure" or just because everyone else is doing it. If he's not willing to wait until you're ready, then you have to think seriously as to whether he's the right person for you or not. I don't think there is any right or wrong age, just when feel that you are ready.
2007-03-13 14:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by HonestOpinion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel pressured into it and are not sure what to do, then you are not ready. If a guy isn't willing to wait for you on that, then he's not worth being with.
2007-03-13 14:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Darp_L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno just how u feel. but me personally, i think you should wait. you wouldnt wanna regret it after. your first should always b with some one special. some arent just mature enough.me and my bf have been together for almost 4 years. we've thought about it, but we decided to wait. i didnt want to regret anything and feel like a whore after words.ne ways, hun, i think u should wait =) i think 18 is the appropriate age, if not. . .21
2007-03-13 15:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel cuz i felt the same way when i was your age... my advice is to wait as long as possible and make sure it's the right guy b4 you give yourself away... i regret my first time and i will for the rest of my life... you dont want to feel like that trust me... good luck!
2007-03-13 14:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by hot stuff 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
until you both are 18
2007-03-13 14:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kno one of my friends just lost her's on new years and she is fourteen. she isn't with that guy n e more, but she says she regrets with who it was with, but she can't change it. i lost it at fifteen, and i don't regret it because i've been with the guy for three years. it really depends on the maturity of the people.
2007-03-13 14:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by J.Funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋