When I say this is for my friend, I’m not just saying that and pretending it’s not me, because it really IS for my friend.
Right, my friend is fifteen and a while ago she sort of went out with this guy, who was 18, and they slept together. However, he filmed them and now they drifted apart he’s been showing the videos to other people.
We have both looked into it, and she decided she doesn’t want to take legal action, but her childish side really wants to get her own back on him, but without him knowing it’s her. Any ideas?
Sorry this is such a ridiculous questions, but it’s certainly not for me!
Anything would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Xxx
2007-03-13 07:32:24 · 11 answers · asked by Curiousity killed the cat 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How stupid is this guy? does he not realise that if your friend decides to go to the police that she now has witnesses to prove that he had sex with her when she was 15.
try and convice her to go to the police... it is very doughtful that he will go to prison if it is his first offence but this guy is a preditor.... and this should be on record.. she is nearly of consent but what if he does this to a younger girl...? could you or your friend live with that... seriously go to the police. If you dont you will regret it when you get older cos now you are seeing it through the eyes of a 15 year old but when you are in your 20's you will realise how WRONG this whole situation is.
please go to the police.
2007-03-13 11:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by EveyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I know she doesnt want to do this but she should take legal action. For a start she is underage and he is well over the age of consent and secondly he filmed it and is now showing it to everyone. Did she even know she was being filmed?
If she goes to the police everybody will find out what a perveted child molester he is and isnt that revenge enough.
2007-03-13 07:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about some of his EXTREMELY embarrassing habits (masturbating), figure out when and how you could film him doing it (through his window), and then show it to all his friends.
And just a little tip for your friend. If she ever decides to tape another sexual act, be sure she tells the guy first that the only way she'll do it is if she can have the tape afterwards. That should be the condition.
2007-03-13 07:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all sex under 16 is a NO NO!!! so she will get found out for that! 2ndly, why the hell let sum1 film u. he's a pervert the B A S T A R D!!! how dare he use women liek this and 3rdly, she should have thought with her head and not her knickers and not ge caught up in teh heat of teh moment and be seduced by a guy with sum1 she dont know well enough i.e. what he really was capable of. u do NOT let any guy push u into sex nevermind bleeping film you. ewwww, he has taken her on a ride and that is not on!!! so what happens now... i dont know. sorry. she could take legal action coz he shudnt be sleeping with her anyway coz under 16 but it takes 2 to tango baby, coz he couldnt have had sex himself soooooo uh oh. i dunno. im sorry to hear that but *shrug* im not sure.
2007-03-13 07:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your friend should do anything about the matter anymore coz it can make it worse. I mean, this guy is an *** perv to start off with so he'd probably do other stuff to harm her if she retaliated now. I guess time would smooth things out here. She could try dating other guys to show him what a good time she's having without him. It can give him a bitter shove in the back.
2007-03-13 07:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Eliza 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie, your friend needs to confront this jerk and get that video back from him. Tell your friend that if he isn't cooperative when she nicely asks to tell him she will press rape charges against him. I hope he returns it without a problem.
2007-03-13 07:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this mistake, revenge will do her no good and just cause more problems. Children shouldn't be having sex. Tell her to close her legs and realise it was stupid
2007-03-13 07:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge that your friend can do is threaten legal action,as she is underage,and demand the video tape and any other copy's he made..............good luck.
2007-03-13 07:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm i egged my exes house with some friends when i was younger and his dads car stuff like that, immature but funny.
2007-03-13 07:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
taking legal action would be the best revenge - he will end up in jail - statutory rape.
2007-03-13 07:37:45 · answer #10 · answered by LucyintheSkywithDiamonds 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋