I am newly single and I want to date. But the guys who try to talk to me are as bad as what I left. There all drunks or really broke. One guy ask me out and he was riding a bike and not a dirt bike. He has already told me he works part time at Pizza Hut. And is paying off hot checks he wrote. How do I keep from attracting losers. Please help?
2007-03-13 07:29:49 · 30 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darklord Bob and Tobyk I can only tell you that yall must be thinking about one another. Darklord Bob I think you have first hand experience with that smell your talking about. It might go away if you move out of your parents basement. Good luck.
2007-03-13 09:32:44 · update #1
Darklord of nothing I left my husband. Also I don't have a daddy and I've always had a job. I like to be on my own. As the saying goes I can do bad all by myself, I don't need a man. I just want one.
2007-03-13 16:41:40 · update #2
Darlin if you find a good answer to this let me know I've been saying for years I have "Losers apply here" tattooed on my forehead.
2007-03-13 07:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Varacha 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know that saying... "birds of a feather flock together?" The truth is that you overestimate yourself and do not realize that the reason these losers come to you is because you yourself are tainted goods and worthless in every human capacity. Otherwise you would be getting approached by single Danish princes and hot young doctors with perfect butts and compassion towards children. But as such, pathetic losers can smell their own, and your taint could reach the noses of a thousand losers without a single member of high society willing to touch you with a 10-foot pole.
Get over yourself loser. Date your own kind.
I mean... come on! You're pissed because a guy rides a bike and not a spiffy new dirt bike for you to show off? How shallow is that? Seriously, where does a gutter piece of trash like you get off being picky and generalizing all men as losers, just because all the rich and good looking ones don't want your skank self? Here's a tip for you, get a job, get some money, rent yourself some class because you obviously can't afford it, and get your social world out of the ghetto and maybe, just maybe you'll actually get to meet some of those non-loser guys since you won't be spending so much time getting poked behind the dumpster at the Pizza Hut. Until then you are an even bigger loser than all of those guys who ever approached you, because at least they aren't trying to pretend to be something they aren't. Take you for example... a piece of trash who thinks she craps gold and bitter that she can't date outside the garbage can...
PATHETIC!!!
2007-03-13 14:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by DarkLord_Bob 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
List down all you the traits and characteristics of the guy you wanted and declare it to the universe. Then you will attract that guy of your dreams.
Read this book:
THE COSMIC ORDERING SERVICE
Barbel Mohr
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2007-03-13 14:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Coach Rovel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may have to get snippy with them instead of nice, for some reason them kinda guys can smell girls like us. And there is nothing you can do bout that, but honestly i would try to go out to a nicer place with your friends, a lil higher in class. and bump up your standards. I have the same problem too, i left my husband for my boyfriend, and let me tell ya, hes no picnic either. All i can ever find are jerks. not to mention we are so much more mature in so many areas that there not. They just know what they want in a girl, and they take their chances. You should try that sometime. Go to a fancy place and look damn good, and you be amazed. You be so amazed you be frightened at first. Shoot i should try that.
2007-03-13 14:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by grumpyme2003 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know first and foremost, don't look for anyone, let people look for you, but if you do look, make sure that you get to know someone before you get into a committed relationship. Know their past, not necc. their exes, but know about them. By getting to know them, you may see patterns, ways they act, etc. I do have to say that you can't put a pricetag on love. Love comes from inside. Its just a matter of the right one coming along. I personally am single, and what I want in a woman is honesty, an outgoing personality, one who likes to laugh, try new things, have fun, and love romance. I will say that I have had several relationships, but you have to have goals, and see if the guys you are interested in have goals? Conversation is key! Good luck!
2007-03-13 14:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where do you find this people at maybe you should go to differant places to find guys like a mall rather than say a bar. I don't know good luck.
2007-03-13 14:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by joe d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get on Yahoo Answers and ask total strangers when you need advice about dating! That's a plan for success!
2007-03-13 14:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to start going to better places. If you want a man with money, think, where would a man with money spend time at. If you want a nice, wholesome man, think, where would a nice wholesome man spend time at. Clubs and bars is no place to meet someone.
2007-03-13 14:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by treasureyourself 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you never know with people these days, you can't judge them in their "here-and-now." that Pizza Hut guy might end up a CEO of a new company, or another millionaire like Donald Trump, and then you would look pretty snobby for judging him like that. Give people a chnce, they might surprise you.
2007-03-13 14:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by zelgadiss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to go to an upscale country club is there one in your town. when you attend the big ball wear something super sexy. find out who all the rich single young up and cumers are and dance when they ask you to dance. make contacts and get numbers.also hang around at upscale clubs if you are of legal age to drink.good luck
2007-03-13 14:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋