I have a boyfriend and we went out for 9 months and we broke up 7 months ago.
We just got back together and he said
HE DOESNT FEEL THE SPARKS!!!!!!!!
What am i suppose to Do.
He said he wants to be with me but he needs to find himself.
His brother went through the same thing so during the summer he is gonna have his brother help him.
By visiting him.
What are we suppose to do until then????
He doesnt want to spend time together cause he feels weird when he is around me.
He says he really wants to stay together.
and I LOVE HIM ALOT.
Help us please!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 07:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by Livin by each second 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If in fact the spark has gone and he does not feel the same then you have to let him go. In 7 months you two were broken up, he probably tried to rekindle to see if the feelings were still there and learned that they were not. As hard as it is to not feel rejection, you must understand, most times we just change and feelings change also for no explanation. This is called, growing apart. Best thing for you to do is to let him go to his brothers to think things through. Let him know that YOU too have some thinking to do. Even suggest he date other people. The message you are giving him is that if he wants his freedom then he can have it. He needs to know that his actions can make him lose you. After doing this, get out with other friends and do not call him for any reason at all. Time will let you know what you need to know. Best wishes to you!
2007-03-13 07:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very difficult to put a relationship back together that has been apart. I am including a URL for a site that might be helpful. Pick a reasonable date that you tell yourself that if things aren't better by then, you'll move on. You don't want to have all this time invested in a lost cause. Life is short.
2007-03-13 07:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most relationships loose those "sparks" because they get bored of each other. Try finding out more of what he likes then do some of those things to make the relationship more interesting.
Have a great day!
- The Date Doctor
2007-03-13 07:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't generate the sprak in your boy friend babe. I just wonder you broke up seven months ago and then you got back together and he feels "weird" when around you but you are not getting the message yet. HE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU BABE. He is just looking for excuses and does not have the guts to break your little sweet heart coz he knows this girl is crazy for me but mark my words young girl in the end you will find its not the BROTHER who will help him but another girl. I think its high time to review your relationship with him , seriously.
2007-03-14 07:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So. your boyfriend does not feel the sparks, huh? Well, why don't you light a fire where his sun does not shine and see if that moron gets his act together,I would offer my services, but I have a pretty little Indian princess already, so your out of luck!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 08:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
problematic point. lookup in google and yahoo. that will could help!
2014-12-05 15:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋