Wedding help! lol?

Question

I'm getting married next month and i have no clue what to do besides dress, rings, and songs. What songs should I use? What color dress if I'm not a virgin? What kind of flowers? Where do i get my vows? I don't know what else? Am I supposed to pick a Bible verse too? Please help. I need it! lol

Answer 1

first of all take a deep breath and relax you still have time lets tackle one thing at a time #1 dress what can you afford and what is the weather going to be like. #2. rings what have you and your fiance decided on plain bands or wedding sets . if you do not have time go for the bands sets can be bought at a later date . #3. you aren't a virgin ok remember it is still your wedding and you can still wear white if you want to . #4.flowers since time is short again you can always use artificial flowers to make your bouquets you need ont to carry and one for your maid of honor to hold also you need some as butaneers for the men such as your groom and his best man you wil also want some for your mother inlaw and your mom . #5. your vows are simple either have the preacher say them and you repeat them to on another or you write your own and say whats in your heart what your fiance means to you . #6. you do not have to say a bible verse if you do not want to . #7. most people have a song playing while the groomsmen are seating your family members and his family members . #8. you will need a church and a pastor to preform the services . #9. you can have the reception at the church or you can rent a seperate hall for the reception hope all goes well . remember that some places like a deposit and some pastors will reqire marriage counseling before they will agree to marry you . if you can not get everything done then you might have to move the date to a later time . #10. have you sent out invitations yet . #11. have you thought of a place for the wedding rehearsal . if theese are things you have not thought aabout yet then visit your local library they should have some books that might help with what you need hopethis helps some and congradulations

Answer 2

I would still go with a white dress maybe an off white if that....Just because your not a virgin who cares white is a wonderful color...Use a song that you and your soon to be hubby likes.....Have you ever heard of this song called this man and this woman....You do not have to have any vows at all, let the preacher do all the talking...You do not have to pick anything at all...
One good tip is at the wedding have a little tree there and have cloth pins on it so anyone can put money on it and let there be known that this money will be used to help out in the marrage in anyway you both need. hope you like it

Answer 3

This is all stuff you should discuss with your minister, pastor, priest, he will tell you everything you need to do as far as the wedding itself. Normally he will have standard vows for you unless you choose to write your own. He will tell you what type of music you can and cannot have during the ceremony and will probably have a list of songs to choose from. If you haven't got your dress yet, with less than a month to go, your going to have to settle for whatever they have available, but white if fine even if you are not a virgin. The flowers are totally up to you. This is all stuff your mother or your matron of honor should be able to help you with.

Answer 4

What??? girl it's the year 2007, you can wear whatever the hell you want. Sounds like your doing a rush wedding.... I suggest getting a planner book or check out theknot.com and talk to a family member about what you are doing. You can just do standard vows... the minister or judge will just have your repeat something and say I do... that's what I am doing. You don't need a bible verise.....
Just get roses- classy and easy from florist or supermaket. Songs?? For the reception?? check sit down and take a deep breath and write down some songs you like.

Answer 5

The best thing you can do is run out and buy a wedding planner book. It will list all the stuff mentioned above plus other things like, reception hall, photographer bridesmaids gifts, invitations. This will help keep you on track and organized for the big day. Congrats and good luck

Answer 6

Go to your local book store or library and get a few books on planning. They even have notebooks where you can write in details and they give you pointers on vendors, and even tips and ettiquete. Very handy, I used one to plan my wedding!
Good Luck!

Answer 7

relax, calm down. if your THIS confused hire a wedding planner or ask someone who's been married before