This guy I like and he likes me, well When we started out liking each other he was single. I got all the attention from him all the signs of flurting everything, then he got a girlfriend, he dumped her then a another one. all thru this still flurts with me give me attention. The attention is getting less and less I did not give him any signs but a few I liked him because was not sure liked me or trying to get into my paints. Lately been fluring with him big time. I get little to no attention. I remember when he flurted around me with his girlfriend in the room. Just flurting. I do feel like I am not important to him so I will ignore him just in case he does flurt,and move on. what you do you think. Please be polite with your answers!
2007-03-13 07:14:49 · 14 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes let go of him, even if you two end up together, what makes you think he won't flirt with other women, the way her flirts with you. You deserve better :)
2007-03-13 07:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by bluemoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well it sounds like he is wasting ur time. If he flirts w/ u and then he has a girlfriend wont he do the same thing if u were together but w/ another chick? I think u should just drop him and get on w/ ur life. It isn't fair that he is doin this to u. If u really like him and want this to keep happening then stay around. Other then don't. So maybe he isn't interested in you anymore and doesn't want to tell u. Who knows with guys anymore i mean really. But best of luck
2007-03-13 14:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Guys are afraid of rejection (gals too, but guys are very fragile in this area especially). It sounds like he has been interested, but doesn't feel the opportunity is there. It would be easy to say move on, but then you will always wonder and life is too short for that. Be direct through an email or something. Otherwise, the question of what could've been will remain
2007-03-13 14:20:58 · answer #3 · answered by mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he got the impression from you that you just want to be friends and flirting is fun with you.
however is odd he did not respond when you went 'big time' with the flirting.
So..... be direct.
Perhaps something like this ..... "________ (put his name in the blank), I'd like to talk to you about something that is a little serious with me, can we go ___________ (pick a spot that is as private as possible).
___________ (his name) I like you and I'm sorry if I've sent mixed messages. You've had a couple girlfriends other than me & I would hope based on how we were friends then that we could always be friends, but I would like to see if we could be something more.
- then here is the big transition.... What do you think __________ (his name).
depending on his answer you will have a handle on how to proceed.
2007-03-13 14:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by dharp66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's nothing but just that....
A flirt
And a bit of a player.
Ignore him and move on, eventually you'll
a) meet someone better
or
b) he'll see your not paying him any attention which will draw him closer.
But, be careful, it doesn't sound like he's too stable with relationships. More of a "date around" kinda guy.
2007-03-13 14:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me he sounds like he is just wasting your time. He is just being a player to you to see mostly if you will take it. What you should do is move on and find someone that isn't a player and does like you because if you don't you will just be wasting time on him.
2007-03-13 22:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by april h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him honey!!! sounds like a player to me, and if things happen between you guys, now you know he's capable of flirting with other girls like he did with you
2007-03-13 14:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by lysa24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cooling down when you are begining to warm up eh?
There is nothing between you guys before and please, you are better off without this guy ok.
So, go your own way before he jumps into your pant and plucks your heart out.
2007-03-13 14:22:50 · answer #8 · answered by The Razor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he doesn't like you anymore...Maybe you should back off a little and don't show him too much affection see what happens...good luck my dear!
2007-03-13 14:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget about him. He sounds like a player.
2007-03-13 14:17:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rewind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋