Child Support Rights?

Question

who can tell me, that they may have experienced, how to get full custody of your child and what are all the things you can do to punish the father (in the custody way) who has bad history??

Answer 1

I hope no one answers.

Seriously. Why do you want to know?

If it is because you are going through this then you shouldn't be looking at examples of what others have gone through. Instead, stick to the facts of your case, don't embellish, and don't seek to be punitive. Assuming you are already divorced, and you may actually get full-custody AND your ex has to pay child support, that is punishment enough.

Don't be vendictive.

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Answer 2

You need to file in the Superior Court for anything having to do with custody, no matter where you live in the US. As far as "punishing the father", think long and hard before you do that. Make sure you are doing it for the well being of the child and not the vengeance of you. If he is doing something that will harm the child then, GET PROOF--if you are petitioning the courts, the burden of proof falls on you. Look up the US code (type in the tool search engine bar US CODE) for child custody rights, the check the statutes of the state you live in. Knowledge is your best weapon in these situation. If he is hurting, endangering or neglecting your child you can file for emergency temporary custody with the courts that will give you emergency custody with in 24-72 hours. Hope that helped!!! Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

Well I didn't go for full custody to punish my ex. I won full custody because he was a crack head. I called child's services because on his last court appointed visitation he abused my son. They stepped in a he failed drug testing for an entire month. I took him back to court two years later, he had not seen my children during those two years or since he abused my son. I told him it did not matter what happened in the court room, he will never see my kids again. We went into court he agreed to sign over his parental rights and the judge replied good thing, cause I would've made you anyway.

Answer 4

Unless he is real "winner", you will probably not get full custoday if he is wanting some as well...If you can prove he is a horrible, horrible person, then you might have a shot... but otherwise, they usually give partial custody to both...Trust me, I've been through it... Wanted to "get" him so bad, he lied on the stand and was a total jerk! But in the end, he will always be my children's father, and they love him... He does treat them well, and now it has been 9 years...we can finally tolerate each other...
Piece of advice...DOCUMENT everything that he does...you may find yourself in court at a later date, and might want proof of what he has done...
Good luck to you...take a deep breath..it will work out in the end...

Answer 5

You have to prove that the Father is not fit to have even partial custody. Just a thought, do you think that this may hurt your child? They should come first and your bitterness second.

Answer 6

Why would you want to punish your children? Afterall they are the ones that feel it the most. It may even take years to feel the effects.
If he has bad history,I am sure things will all come out in court and eventually things will catch up to him. I speak from expierence.
Your children need you and the example you are going to set. Only you can take this horrible expierence and make it better for your children if he is as bad as you say he is.

Answer 7

if you can PROVE he has a history; of drugs, abuse, something dangerous to the child, then you have a good shot at getting full custody... and he still has to pay child support.

full custody just means he has no rights, except visitation, and even that may be pulled if proven he is a threat or danger to a child.

you can request a mental evaluation/family evaluation (in most states), if the court sounds like they are not sure...

CHILD SUPPORT CALCULATORS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/calculators.htm
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/childsupport/
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/child-support-calculators.html


LAWS
http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/states.htm
http://www.divorcehq.com/spprtgroups.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/statebystate.htm
http://www.divorcenet.com/states
http://www.divorcesource.com/
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.divorcecentral.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/unpaid-support/support-orders-enforcement.html
http://www.divorcehq.com/deadbeat.html
http://www.divorceinfo.com/
http://www.divorceinanutshell.com/
http://www.lawchek.com/Library1/_books/domestic/qanda/childsupp.htm
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-laws/state-child-/
http://www.supportguidelines.com/resources.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/links.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/laypersons.html
http://www.supportguidelines.com/articles/news.html
http://family.findlaw.com/child-support/support-basics/
http://www.spiesonline.net/deadbeat.shtml
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html

STATS
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/acesstatistics.html

FINDING DEADBEATS
http://www.wantedposters.com/skiptrace.htm
http://find.intelius.com/search-name.php?ReportType=1&
http://www.discreetdata.com/index.html
http://www.identitycrawler.net/people_search.html
http://www.efindoutthetruth.com/
http://www.peoplefinders.com
http://zabasearch.com/

FED AGENCIES
http://www.ncsea.org/
http://www.nfja.org/index.shtml
http://www.naag.org/issues/issue-consumer.php

REGIONAL FEDERAL CHILD SUPPORT OFFICES
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/oro/regions/acf_regions.html

FACTS AND REGIONAL FEDERAL CS OFFICE INFO
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/fct/fct4.htm
http://www.divorcesource.com/WI/ARTICLES/beaulier11.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/opa/fact_sheets/cse_factsheet.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/index.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/faq.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/passport.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/fop/fop.htm
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/newhire/faq/faq.htm
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/extinf.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cse/
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/grants/grants_cse.html
http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/index.html
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/region2/index.html
http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.govbenefits.gov/govbenefits_en.portal
http://www.fedstats.gov/qf/
http://www.fedworld.gov/gov-links.html
http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/pfs92/ch3.htm

SSI AND CHILD SUPPORT
http://www.ssa.gov/policy/docs/policybriefs/pb2004-02.html
http://www.ssa.gov/notices/supplemental-security-income/
http://family.findlaw.com/

FIND YOUR STATE REPS
http://www.usa.gov/
http://www.usa.gov/Agencies/State_and_Territories.shtml
http://www.nga.org
http://www.naag.org/attorneys_general.php

CHILD SUPPORT LIEN NETWORK
(some states work with them)
http://www.childsupportliens.com/

COLLECTORS
http://www.supportkids.com/
http://www.supportcollectors.com/faq.php
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/
http://www.deadbeatdadfinders.com/links.html
http://www.childsupport-aces.org/index2.html
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/deadbeat/deadbeat.shtml

TAX INFO
http://www.taxsites.com/index.htm
http://www.divorceinfo.com/taxes.htm
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc354.html
http://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc422.html
http://www.irs.gov/faqs/faq4-5.html
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/advocate/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p525/index.html

http://www.fms.treas.gov/faq/offsets_childsupport.html
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p504/ar02.html#d0e563
http://money.cnn.com/2007/02/14/pf/taxes/do_not_miss_tax_breaks/index.htm?postversion=2007021411

REPORT DEADBEATS
WORKING UNDER THE TABLE
(in writing, to your local and federal IRS offices)
http://www.irs.gov/localcontacts/index.html
http://www.irs.gov/compliance/enforcement/article/0,,id=106778,00.html

SEX OFFENDERS
http://www.mapsexoffenders.com/
http://www.scanusa.com/
http://www.nsopr.gov/
http://www.familywatchdog.us/Default.asp

Answer 8

Stop using your child as a Pawn
and start getting along with the Father of your child
Your childs mental /emotional health depends on it

he has a bad history? hey, you're the one who decided to have sex with him knowing his background

Answer 9

I think losing your child and yet paying for them until they are 18 is punishment enough.