I stared dating this guy friday morning and that night i ended up kissing some guy and then the next night at work i ended up kissing another guy that i really like but then sunday i was supposed to get ot see my boyfriend and when i didnt i was really upset and i realized that i really like him and i feel really bad for cheating on him so do i tell him what happened or do i let it go and just forget it?
2007-03-13 06:57:41 · 26 answers · asked by Lena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just stop doing it...
You need not confess anything to anyone.
2007-03-13 07:00:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all I don't understand why you kiss two guys after you two decide to be a couple. I would take into consideration whether you are ready for a commitment. As to telling him or not that is up to you. If you feel like you should tell them do. You probably already feel like you should tell him or you wouldn't be on here asking in the first place. Next time don't kiss another guy when you have one!
2007-03-13 07:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of personality he has. If he's the type of guy who will be real jealous and will hate you forever, then you should probably keep it in. If he's the type of guy who's willing to let it go and not make a big deal out of it then you should tell him. It's really all about trust. If you tell him, you never know he might also have done something. It sounds like you really like him so you should tell him.
2007-03-13 07:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Nina_Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know you should tell him. i wouldnt come on here and ask that so you could get support for cheating. One lie is going to lead to another and you are going to have a very hollow relationship right off the bat. maybe you should reconcider being in a relationship, then you can kiss as many guys as you want.
2007-03-13 07:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by corEy marsh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
though you don't have to tell him. your REAL issue is in your attitude...''just forgetting it'' is the surest way of repeating it . you need to realize that cheating is unfair honest or not, sorry or not, like him or not.
you have to understand that there are some people who may not choose to judge you.
and,though they don't demand everyone must be perfect, they still expect that you respect and cherish your relationship with them.
2007-03-13 07:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime's it's better to be happy than to know the truth. Since you just started, I think you should keep it to yourself, if you decided that it was the wrong thing to do then be proud of yourself and act differently from now on.
There's no need to hurt him with the truth and put in danger something that's just beginning.
2007-03-13 07:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by namojaro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like you are either not ready for a monogamous relationship, or you are polyamorous (a google search will be very enlightening if you're not familiar with it). either way, you should be honest. either the new bf will be just like you, or you'll avoid an unhappy relationship.
everybody will be way happier in the long run if you're honest.
2007-03-13 09:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by netizen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. If you don't tell him and he finds out then he will breakup with you. A relationship can only work with love and honesty. Cheating and lieing is how they break.
2007-03-13 07:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a long term relationship with him then YES tell him how you feel about him and that you cheated on him...if you don't do it now then problems WILL raise.
2007-03-13 07:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by pinklilywish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to tell your boyfriend. It's not fair for him to not know!!! Just be prepared to have it end. You can't live in a lie, and pretend like everything is happy-go-lucky when it's not. You have to tell him.
2007-03-13 07:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your gonna loose him most likely if u told him...yet you cant like someone that much if u cheated on him...you dont want taht to haunt you and if something comes out of it and later down the road he finds out then ouch for him....anyways...my point is..make sure if u dont tell him..u never ever tell him....and if u do..try real hard to work it out...i would tell if it was me..but are u ready for a relationship?...
2007-03-13 07:02:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋