When I read on here, I see that a lot of women who respond to certain questions state that they don't like sex as much or could go without it for a long time etc.
Now, I understand that most guys out here don't know what they're doing, so that may be part of the reason so many women don't care for sex.
But I had a girlfriend who didn't care for sex either, even though I could really please her and after we broke up she even wanted to keep me around just for sex. The thing was that she really only wanted it like once a month maybe twice. The rest of the time she seemed to not care for it.
My question is, what ABOUT sex don't women like?
I know that women might feel sort of violated because something goes inside of them.... Is that the reason?
2007-03-13 06:56:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm, boo boo and the rest of you that rec'd her, did you guys even read my question?
i said there are a lot of women who are responding to questions on here who stated they don't care for sex. i didn't have sex with any of them so how could it be me? learn how to read and understand logic before you post insults
2007-03-13 07:04:18 · update #1
They do like it...they just get disgusted with their partner, because he doesn't treat her well, or takes her for granted and then the women loses interest in that person thus no sexual interest. Get a clue gentlman and you will have a great sex life
2007-03-13 07:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know WAY more women (online and off) that love sex...many moreso than their male partners (and one can read a lot about that here too).
Some women aren't all that into sex, and some men aren't....it's an individual thing...basically for women (in general) since sex is often tied to emotions, they don't enjoy it (much) if they aren't emotionally into it...that's also a reason why more guys than gals manage casual sexual relationships...it's tougher for most women to detach themselves from the emotion and just enjoy sex as a recreational activity.
I've never heard any woman claim sex caused them to feel violated (outside of rape situations) so no...I think you are off base there. Many however are unable to climax vaginally, so if their partner doesn't spend some significant quality time helping them climax externally, they may never get much out of sex at all (but a burning feeling when their body's natural lube begins to wear off).
Do more research though...you'll find far more women do enjoy sex than do not...and some have libidos that rival that of a sex-starved guy at his peak. LOL!
2007-03-13 14:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women Love sex at least I do the reason alot of women can go without isn't because they dont like it it is because we are emotional and are more likely to enjoy sex with some one we love and someone who makes us feel sexy and loved
a man can be great in bed but if i dont enjoy the rest of time we spend together I am less likeley to enjoy sex with him and even though I can go without doesn't mean I dont want it I just want it to mean more than one night in the sac
although occasionaly I am sure that could be good too
2007-03-13 14:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone is different.
i have gone through phases where i couldn't care less about sex... most of the time it was because i lost respect for my partner, if the truth be known.
generally, i like sex.
if you have a healthy, loving relationship, trust and respect each other, and have a committment, sex would be a natural part of the big picture.
everyone is different, and i think that some people don't mind having sex in a casual dating relationship, while others are better off having sex when they are more committed?
i'd venture to guess the MAJORITY of women out there do like sex!
2007-03-13 14:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe there is much issue regarding feeling violated. Sex styles vary - it can be intercourse, oral, anal and include everything inbetween. However, for some women, sex as intercourse can be more uncomfortable than pleasurable until both partners find what works best for each of them. The next serious partner that you have (hopefully your wife), take time to find out what gives her crazy pleasure. Do not be afraid to ask, especially if you want the relationship to last. Also, do not be afraid to experiment. Intercourse may not be "enough" for her! Have fun!
2007-03-13 14:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by gigigirlie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like one of the other posters said, about 1 in 4 women experience pain when they have sex, so that naturally makes them want to have less sex.
Add to that that over 65% of women generally don't orgasm from vaginal intercourse, and you will quickly see that a lot of women don't seem to get much out of just having sex.
Luckily, there are many who aren't getting anything out of it but who still like it, because they THINK they're having fun. LOL!
2007-03-13 14:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by The Don 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's one thing you still haven't discovered.
Women's most powerful sex organ is their brain.
They need fantasy. Don't try to start sex by having sex. There has to be a lot of smooth caressing, soft kisses on her most sensitive spots like maybe neck, back, ears, etc. Work your way all over her body but whatever you don't DON'T TRY TO START DOING IT!!!
Do this for a while, you will learn to enjoy it too. After a while, if you did things the way SHE gets turned on, she WILL want to have sex, and then again, and again and again!!!
2007-03-13 14:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by Vince Ruberto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...most probably. There's a strong bond between the heart and the body when it comes to a woman's behaviour. If she loves her partner, she'd love sex day and night. If he is just a guy she is dating, then I think once or twice a month would be ok, only when the hormons are out of control.
2007-03-13 14:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by DreamGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel violated if the object was ivited. I do understand why women don't want it as much though, it seems like a lot of effort when we might not get anything out of it. It's a lot easier for guys to orgasm than girls and sometimes the guy cares more about his needs than ours.
2007-03-13 14:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by eternity 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's that they don't like it as much as it is that they don't require as much as some men. From what I know, from friends and such, they don't get enough! They got more in the begining, but it tapers off to not much!! Guess the wrong people keep hooking up with each other! Besides, for us, love making starts with how you've treated us all week, not just what you do in the bedroom!!!!!
2007-03-13 14:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by wish I were 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋