My sister broke up with her boyfriend about 5, maybe 6 days ago, they were together for 4 years. And she seemed fine after that firtst night. she went on relatively normal if not happier than when she was with him.
Then last night her boyfriend came by, and wanted to "talk". they left the house and went to where i can only assume was his house. They were gone for the better part of two hours. And now they are back together, you may think this sounds lke a good thing, but, they have broken up before; she said she didn't see a future with him and he felt the same; once one of my sister's freinds was pretty damn sure she saw him kissing another girl; and he is leaving soon to go to a different college that is pretty far away. But we think he schmoosed her until she caved in.
I think them getting back together was a big mistake, and so do my parents.
Are we wrong? Should they get back together? Didn't she need more time after the break up?
2007-03-13 06:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by QuestionMark 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even if you do not agree you do not get a vote. it is her life, and the harder you try to push her away from him the more she will feel she needs to defend him, therefore bringing him even farther into her life.
just stand by her and be a good brother
2007-03-13 13:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to agree with you guys there in saying that he talked her into it. If they both agreed on the whole not having a future thing then honestly i dont see why he wanted to get back with her. I'd also have to say that it was a mistake for her to take him back because if one of her friends saw him kissing some girl that wasnt her then hes just a player and is looking for another notch on his belt. Unfortunately you're not allowed to put a time limit on how long it takes someone to realize a mistake so it could take anywhere from two days to two months.
2007-03-13 12:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Juhboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋