It had been 3 years since my ex-girlfriend and I broke up from a 1 year committed relationship. It's still confusing today of the reason, but regardless she got in contact with me about 6 months ago and we've been engaging in conversation on msn. Recently this past month she has met someone and suddenly doesn't talk to me at all. She hasn't even told me about him yet, I just know through one of her friends. I still have feelings for her which makes this a tougher situation, but my question is: Why would someone make contact with an ex then suddenly stop talking to them? We’ve accomplishing so much in reuniting this past 6 months and it’s suddenly seems wasted. Is it because she's secretly still has feelings for me? She times before mentioned she was single… I’m confused!
2007-03-13 06:52:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, she was biding her time with you up until now. And now, she has met someone so she's done with you.
2007-03-13 06:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I ever contacted an ex it would probably be out of curiosity on how he is doing, or if old feelings can grow back, or because I miss the friendship. Could be she contacted you for all the reasons I mentioned then decided against it when she met someone else. Maybe from talking with you she felt you were not interested in her in the way she wanted you to be. You need to talk to her. Let her know how happy you were to hear from her and wondered if things could ever get better. See where you stand. If not, you will always wonder. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-13 07:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the writing is on the wall. could it be that your ex has been using you to fill the void in her life? she now finds someone else and moved on. why are you keeping your self in denial? face it the relationship ended, she does not owe you any explanation, what she does with her life is her business. She does not have to have any feelings for u, just that she used u for her convenience and now dispose of ytou until she thinks she may need to recycle you again. p.s. move on. get a life.
2007-03-13 07:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are ex's, which means anything can happen. If she meets someone, she meets someone. It's kind of mean, but she doesn't have to tell you anything. She may even be wrong for not telling you, but she still doesn't have to. I say, just get on with your life and don't waste any more of your time.
2007-03-13 06:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by the anomaly23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's probably going on is she is confused about what she wants; if there is anything between you two, she'll figure it out After she has exposure to this other guy; let her have her space. My guess is she's under 25 and unsure of alot of things.
2007-03-13 06:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Adonai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she still has feeling for u but she is trying to move on maybe you should try and do the same thing and forget about her and find someone else.
2007-03-13 06:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its cz she din 1 her new bf 2 misunderstanding.she jz 1 2 move on...n hv a gd relationship w/o u in the picture anymore...
2007-03-13 07:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by cyndi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bascically she found someone who she thinks is better than u
2007-03-13 06:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by lakita s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋