How come I don't feel comfortable being sexy?
I'm 18.... When I wear clothes that make me a little bit of sexy, I don't feel comfortable. If people tell me that I look sexy, I don't feel comfortable.
2007-03-13 06:49:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to find your OWN style of sexy. You won't look like a magazine cover, but if you're comfortable with yourself, your choices, your style, that will only make you more attractive.
2007-03-13 06:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant feel sexy without feeling comfortable and confident in your own skin first. And when you are that, you will be sexy and wont need to 'look' sexy. And there's nothing more gross than looking at someone constantly adjusting their clothes cos they're not comfortable.
2007-03-13 06:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Hopi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just shy about exposing yourself and having someone say you're sexy. It's completely normal but once you grow into your own skin you'll feel more comfortable with the sexy idea.
2007-03-13 06:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be because you are shy and/or a little insecure. Take a long look at yourself and tell yourself you are beautiful and sexy. Do things for yourself that make you feel good inside. Talk to someone about the things that make you feel insecure.
2007-03-13 06:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Darlin1_66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I used to be shy too. I am sure it is normal for most people.
Start out slowly and get comfortable with it, like wear those clothes when you are alone with yourself.
Get used to walking aroung naked etc.. when you are by yourself. when you begin to feel comfortable like that, It is easier to wear clothes around other people that make you look sexy.Good luck.
2007-03-13 06:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your brain is wired for modesty...wear less showy clothes that still look good. If guys are smart, they will fall for the real you and not if you look sexy or not. And if you are pretty, they will still like you, no matter what clothes you are wearing!
2007-03-13 06:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you don't have a lot of confidence with yourself. Love yourself to the fullest and you'll feel sexy in sweats!
2007-03-13 06:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know WHY you don't feel comfortable, but my best advice is
do what makes YOU happy... you don't have to show all your skin to be and feel sexy!
take care of you....
all the best!
2007-03-13 06:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your insecure with yourself...like me. You but effort into trying to look good yet no compliments. It's like doing an awsome job at work and you manager not even noticing. compliment yourself in the mirror before you go out.
2007-03-13 06:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by tryin2help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try walking around naked.
2007-03-13 06:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by badmitton69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋