I've been dating this guy for about a month now (I'm 23 and he's 26), but due to us both having crazy schedules it will have been a week and a half since last seeing each other..I'm not worried that things have cooled off (we've still talked every day), I just want to make sure to be @ the top of my game this time, so he knows I'm still just as into him. What's the best thing to ensure that things don't feel like we're starting all over? Date/wardrobe ideas?
2007-03-13 06:45:26 · 6 answers · asked by UW_econ_chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just pull out all the stops. You don't have to get naked to let a guy know that you're interested in him. Wear your "go getta dress" and those heels that you have and I'm sure that will leave a lasting impression on him. As far as the date goes make sure that you choose a place that's intimate and that allows the two of you to be able to communicate freely. Then after it's all said and done plant a wet one on him that'll leave him hungry for more. Good luck.
2007-03-13 07:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second date can be considered a second chance to make a second impression, only this time, both of you can loosen up a little. The second date can be more about fun and getting to know each other a little more intimately.
You can never go wrong by keeping it simple and just going to a dinner or a movie. However taking a more imaginative approach may enhance your partner's passion for you.
Bring out your partner's "child within" by treating him to a trip to an amusement park complete with cotton candy and cozy rides on the Ferris wheel. Or invite him for an old fashioned picnic in your own back yard. Make him laugh by taking him to a comedy club or a zoo. Take a trip to China town to sample Chinese food or invite him along on a trip to scour the countryside for flea and antique markets.
If you found that on your first date you were very attracted to each other, but because of shyness it was difficult to talk, you might want to turn the date into an activity such as horse-back riding or building a snowman together. Dates that are projects actually spare you both the awkwardness of having to entertain each other.
A woman should always ask a man where they are headed on the second date so she can dress appropriately for the occasion. There is nothing worse than putting on a designer outfit, only to find yourself sitting on the bleachers at a football game. When in doubt, dress casually but smartly and wear sensible shoes (just in case he suggests a romantic trek through the muddy woods.) The most important thing on any date is that you feel confident - not to mention comfortable. No matter how fantastic you look, you'll never be able to truly dazzle a guy if what you're really concentrating on is sucking in your tummy so that you don't look fat in your cocktail dress.
I hope this helps u. All the Best, buddy.
2007-03-13 15:00:27 · answer #2 · answered by Halle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...first off....make the night special! candle light....low music in the background...wear something sexy...maybe that accentuates your chest without having everything spill out. Don't talk about work, or family problems. Set the mood for romance! after dinner have a movie ready. maybe a romantic comedy? and sit close to him. This will stifle conversation and give you a chance to cuddle. Don't sit on the other side of the room from him. or even the other side of the couch. Make physical contact. If nothing else just lay your hand on his arm while sitting close to him. (I'm not sure how intimate you have been with him) I hope that things work out for you =)
2007-03-13 13:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by randella_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend chatting with'm (fully clothed) posing a hypothetical question, like "What would be totally wild for a girl to do..." or "What would be your fantasy when u get off work..."
Even simple things like love notes can cause great anticipation cuz his imagination takes over. There's tons of website that have cool things to say with starting off how u feel about him, then what u plan to do with a reference "to be continued"
2007-03-13 14:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by mccreafx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to come over for dinner and answer the door with nothing on. tell hime we are having dessert first
2007-03-13 14:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by EXPLOR6353 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you see him, make sure to wear a low cut, tight top and a short, tight skirt and thong .....
Guys love that ....
2007-03-13 13:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by mnencefront 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋