i dont' think your fat at all! :)
I definatly would say you have some atractive qualites.. a great smile.. :)
my guess is try and work on your confidence that seems to shine threw.. :)
oh yeah your hair is really nice too..
(i only looked at the first picture)
2007-03-13 06:31:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Honey, other than having intense red-eye in every shot, you look fine. I would say normal-to-skinny and normal-to-pretty. Your looks are not the problems - it's how you look at your looks that is.
You need to continue work with your support groups and work directly with a therapist, and not seek validation from internet strangers, or indeed anyone besides yourself.
Ignore any response to this posting that you get from a man - they will either tell you to dump your boyfriend and have sex with them instead, or they will tell you you're ugly just because they are the pathetic type who kicks people when they're down. There will be at least one nice guy who says you look fine, but other than that, their opinion is not worth having.
Try this, I found it very helpful whenever I doubted my physical self - stand naked in front of a mirror. Start with your feet, and, out loud, declare one positive comment about them - "I love my feet because they carry me wherever I want to go." Move up to each and every body part. "I love my ankles because they are so flexible and trim. I love my calves because they are strong and help me win at soccer. I love the scar on my knee because it reminds me of the times spent playing outside with my friends as a kid." and so on. Don't let yourself stop till you've complimented very part of your body. It will be hard, and you'll feel silly at first, but keep doing this every day. Soon you'll start to look at the best in yourself instead of the worst, and you'll remember that there is always something good in you.
The love of all the people on earth won't matter unless you can love yourself too.
2007-03-13 06:48:52
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answered by teresathegreat 7
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Has your b/f said or done anything to make you feel that you are not worthy of him? You have the most common syndrom of a person who was once over weight and has now become slender which is feeling still trapped. You need to look at yourself in the mirror each day and stop looking at the things you need to improve and start looking at the things you did improve. I work in the medical field hun and looks fade, things begin to sag and drag in areas you don't want them to . That is why the saying comes beauty is what is in the heart. If you over come the weight issue of loosing the pounds then you are not giving yourself credit of being that strong individual that did it. Being worthy of your boyfriend hun is not on how you look but on how you treat him and make him feel as a man. I have seen many over weight women with good men and watch people snicker behind their backs as to why. It because he sees her for what she is on the inside not on the out. Stop being compulsive over the little things (things that you could improve) and start living. You are attractive and beautiful now you need to feel comfortable in your own skin, dig deep into that strong woman you are and tell yourself I did it, I can still do it, I am strong and I look good.
2007-03-13 06:42:19
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answered by Rigssy 2
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I think you are very pretty and have a lot to offer. Dont be so hard on yourself, and accept who you are. Im not a model, but I think im pretty just because there is no one else out there that looks like me, with my style and humor. Believe it or not, if your not confident w/ yourself, you will appear uglier than when you are confident. I actually know a few not so pretty girls get all the guys just because they have an excellent amount of confidence and great personalities. But you are pretty physically, so now you can have the best of both, you just have to realize what you have on the inside!
2007-03-13 06:32:38
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answered by Anonymous
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ur so not ugly :D
i think ur really pretty and if u have a boyfriend then he must find u attractive. and i am sure there are plenty of guys out there who wish they could be in ur boyfriends shoes.
chin up :D
u are beautiful and even if u did put more weight on u would still be beautiful. have confidence, whoever made u feel ugly should not have done that.
u are beautiful noth in and outside!
go for it girl :D
2007-03-13 06:34:29
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answered by the nice girl 23 3
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I think that you are quite attactive, Michelle. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
2007-03-13 06:31:46
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answered by WC 7
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HUNNY!!
Are you crazy??
Your gorgeous
You look very fit and gorgeous
and your glasses make you look as cute as a button
2007-03-13 06:33:09
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah I'd hit it. :)
Just stay out of the sun. You're a little bit too tan.
2007-03-13 06:35:23
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answered by Anonymous
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you are
2007-03-13 06:31:16
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answered by Immortal 4
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