Is this Bad luck?!@?

Question

Hi!!! Please tell me ,is there really any bad luck ...Is it true???
because how hard i work with sincerety n dedication...everything ends terrible...I m always getting into trouble..even though i don't do any bad things... why am i saying this, because in my class all the students never care about exams or any thing....but i m the only stupid person study & score well , i always getting into trouble ..............
I m very very upset....Even for small success, i have to work a lot....but others don't ..but they get easily (really they do nothing...)...

From my childhood , I faced so many terrible
problems, but however i managed them.... it continues...
Due to this, I don't want to marry ,,,i just want to be alone...in my life..
because due to my bad luck, i really afraid that my f.husband may also bad person...or bad things may happen...

Friends..... u may tell this is a depression....
whenever i face a problem,, i give my total efforts to solve the problem,, (and i solved them...)everytime i sai to myself ,everything ll be alright..be cool...and face the next day as a good day...but troubles continues to strike me from every corner .....

Friends..... u may tell this is a depression....
whenever i face a problem,, i give my total efforts to solve the problem,, (and i solved them...)everytime i sai to myself ,everything ll be alright..be cool...and face the next day as a good day...but troubles continues to strike me from every corner .....

Answer 1

First of all let me say that its not your bad luck.You work hard and gets good result.Others didt work hard but gets good result.How? tell me.They are not God.So how they gets good marks?Through back doors.For the time being you will think that why you gave so much efforts and took so much pain.But when you and come on the real stage then you will realise.They cant do any thing in proper way.They will again take the shelter of politics and ultimately what they will achieve?just you decide now --which one good.you are getting into trouble as you are on the right path--which is always full of thorns.It happens.You faced in childhood so many things.But I am sure when you will be established--then every thing will vanish.I am sure you are a genius---so you have such difficulties in life.God is taking your tests.Ultimately you must win.Never think that your husband will be bad.Never ever think even.Be positive.Keep open your senses alert and believe on God--then you will get a nice husband ever you anticipated .Believe me.Marry a person with judgement of time and horoscope.Never hurry--wait and judge and then marry.Always keep good friendship with your husband.Never misunderstand nor fight.Discuss with calm and quite manner.You will have a very good marriage life--not like your mother.I promise you.You will be most happy person--but dont mix your life with others.All men are not bad.

Answer 2

No its not bad luck. it sounds like your too tense and add in time for relaxing a bit my improve things a bit and learn to shrug things off. You can't live in fear that something will go wrong or there will be a high chance of making yourself believe so even in the best situation no matter what you do which leads me to the pasiblo effect (I dont think i spelled it correctly) which basicly is "if you believe something will happen, then it will". such as a sugar pill helping a child heal from illness.

If you learn to believe things will improve mabe the hope will give you the strength needed to make things get better with plans or you can shrug it off easyer with understanding that stuff happens

i have also seen that some people do that because they are jeolous, or a hatefull person or people trying to find some sort of odd entertainment, or followers who follow the hatefull person just for popularity.
i was subject of that sort of thing when i was in elementry school and later i gained *alot* of respect through being myself and not letting people walk over me, i was a rebel against such things. mabe that can help you?

Answer 3

There is no bad luck in life!
There is only good luck in all peoples life!
How you use your time and do things matters a lot in life!
Some people are gifted with everything.
But majority of the people work hard to get everything.
All have problems. This is true even in case of animals/insects/ants etc. all living things.
There is no man or woiman without problems.
Never compare others. Others will be definitely better than us.
Live for yourself! Set right your life!

Answer 4

I understand you. I am exactly the same . I try and try for weeks on end to be a good helpful person . Then all of a sudden i do or say something that wrecks my good work..I will not give up . I will try and try to Improve my self worth. I am so sad at the moment because how ever hard i try i upset my girlfriend .She leaves me and i go on a spin. It used to be drink , and i would end up disgraced.Thankfully . i tried and tried and i am now thoroughly over that. I have discovered that one must learn self preservation and i put trust in god . for every thing there is a season and a time and purpose.
I hope it helps to know you are not alone and as your story has helped me I hope mine will help you.

Answer 5

Chill. Take up some hobbies such as sports, reading, writing, listening to music, or starting a collection. take your mind off things. You should probably reconsider getting married because a soulmate is a wonderful companion and a good decision. Other than that, you may be unhappy because you are not trying your best or really putting your self out there. Make sure you job is one you enjoy and socialize more. Trying to make new friends never hurt anyone! Good luck, and I hope this helps!

Answer 6

Don't call it a bad luck dear! I assure u that hard work always pays. The result will be sweeter, but the efforts will be really painful. I know it is easy to say than to feel. I too had the same feeling before marriage. i had the same sort of doubts in mind before my marriage. But I closed my eyes n stepped into the bond b'coz I couldn't escape that. Now things r fine. Once u start loving urself n feel that u r love, evrything will settle.

Good luck to u ! :-)

Answer 7

Perhaps I'm not the best to advise on this, because my outlook on life is not that great, either. But it sounds like you are pretty young in life, so you do have a chance to change the way you think and your very own life. The way you think and see yourself really does make a difference in how other people see you.

Answer 8

Exactly there is mean of badluck. It is depend on your thinking.
Basically badluck creat from ourselves. Because as per quality thinking this is not a badluck.
because whatever happen in our daily life is for good
whatever we loss in our life it is also for good
whatever we gain in our life it is also for good
donot think that this is bad
if you be positive then nothing will happen
see i also feel like in past year.
that i cannot achiev any thing in my life
due to my badluck
but after meditation and serious thinking and empower the mind thoughts it could become easy for me that it is so easy do all these things. Nothing is tough in the world. if we accept the challenge.

Answer 9

Bad luck is really just negativity, dont even let it in to your life banish it, you are young & have the world at your feet.
Let in some positive thoughts & work towards a brighter future. Lots of Good Luck to you.

Answer 10

there's one thing I've learnt in my working life people that work hard and are dedicated seem to get nowhere. Its always the lazy B******* that seem to get everything and do well.
They are probably very good and lick a**********ing, and have the gift of the gab. I don't beleive you are jinks' you are probley a really nice person, and their jealouse dont give up
the hard work you will get there in the end.