I've known this guy for 13 years now. His family and my family are supper close. He's a senior in high school and I'm a sophmore. We always go on vacation with one another and our families. He is so nice to me. One time him, me, and his sister (who is also one of my best friends) were playing handball or something in their living room, when his sister had to go to the bathroom. Rob and I were still playing and everything, he shot the puck at me and it went behind me so I went to block it and he came and he jumped on top of me and it looked so weird. Then a couple of weeks after that our families went away to Jiminy Peak we have a condo together and all of a sudden I had sat down on the end of the couch you know and he came up to me and put his hand on my leg and wouldnt let go for 5 minutes. Then the next day I went to put on my clothes and everything for snowboarding and he wanted to help me so badly with putting on my snowboard stuff. So I let him not my clothes but my boots.
2007-03-13 05:55:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen sister, that's my boyfriend we're talking about on this public space! (Just kidding.) Ok, since he has a girlfriend, the first and foremost thing you need to do is eliminate the girlfriend. This is fast, easy and painless...you tell him in private that she farts all of the time when he's not around, and right before she walks up....you let a silent stinker! That should do the trick.
2007-03-13 06:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Senorita Farts A Lot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might have a thing for you but since you guys basically grew up together he might think that you only think of him as a friend and nothing more. Like the others said only make your feelings known after he has broken up with the girlfriend if he feels the same then cool beans for you but be prepared that you might only be a little sister to him and he's just friendly like that which could make your friendship a bit awkward
2007-03-13 06:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by halihalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is ill and he desires to end the dating. His ex is happy with this? Thats only ill. She ought to have fairly low self-worth to think of its alright to be somebody's sideline chick. She ought to comprehend she merits extra appropriate than that. he's a jerk for permitting this habit. yet he would not opt to harm his cutting-edge gf? Yeah suitable. How does he think of she's gonna experience whilst she unearths out the fact? She's gonna throw a social gathering? i think of no longer! She's gonna be pissed on the incontrovertible fact that she had no say so in this twisted affair. he's sexin the ex and his cutting-edge....HELLOOOOO!!!! do we are saying illnesses and STD's waiting to take place? however the adverse gf would not even comprehend! Thats completely no longer honest to her she ought to have a say in wether she desires to handle this dating or no longer. He desires to return sparkling and rapid. for the reason that he desires to be certain and have intercourse together with his ex plenty then why no longer be along with her? yet atleast he desires to guy up and tell his cutting-edge gf good day!
2016-09-30 21:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All this time away from his girlfriend make him more and more prone to accepting any female contact. It happens with all guys myself included. He's not looking to drop his girlfriend for you (unless you really wow him) he is looking more for a lil affection. He wants you to blush and to make you feel.... well exactly the way you feel now..... lol
Sadly chances are when he goes back to his girlfriend, she will become No.1 again and your No.2. All you can do is hope that he maybe likes you too much to go back to his girlfriend
2007-03-13 06:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't help you there, I started going out with my boyfriend while he had another girlfriend. He was miserable in his relationship and we didn't mean for anything to happen we were just trying to get to know each other better as friends. Now we talk about marriage all the time and our families are okay with it even though we're only seventeen. Of course my parents have made me promise not to get married until I get out of college.
2007-03-13 06:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Evelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad. He's taken. If you've never been cheated on, let me tell you it hurts. The last thing this world needs is more women trying to lure men into cheating. I'm sure they wont last long anyway, seeing as it's a high school relationship.
Or maybe they will, I don't know. I married my highschool boyfriend.
Don't be that girl.
2007-03-13 06:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to break some girl's heart by stealing his beau?
Better look for your own and possess. This guy is clearly fencing you in because of the closeness and you are already prepared to fall for it.
Anyway, if you like, give it a try and be guilty forever.
2007-03-13 06:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by The Razor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men tends to do stuff that we women don't understand why..and most often we had misinterpreted... i think u shouldn't jumped ahead into a conclusion that he like you.just be yourself and stay as a friend to him.you wouldn't know maybe he liked you too but he thinks you're still too young for such a relationship but he just can't help and cannot resist to stay away from you that is why he is doing all those things... just be cool and be yourself...
2007-03-13 06:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by pink2litle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave it the way it is for now, because it is way more fun just liking a person than being with them. Just do friendly flirting and convo and let nature take it's course. If you chose to interfere with him and his gf he might think if you and him were to hook up that someone might interfere with you two. Just be patient and hold on to him as your friend.
2007-03-13 06:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by babyjishot4ualwayz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will be too weird. What if you do get together than break up? How will all those fun vacations be then? How will your parents feel about his parents if he breaks your heart? Sound like a mess your about to create.
2007-03-13 06:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋