Im not a club/pub person, and have terrible luck meeting someone there.
I have poor hearing (im 24) so loud areas mean i cant really hear.
How else can i meet someone? I often see very attractive girls at the shops, down the beach etc, but i dont know how to talk to them as a stranger.
I want to leave university and work girls out, just incase.
Any help would be great
2007-03-13 05:53:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One suggestion would be to find a girl to talk to in a coffee shop or park. Thats somewhere that you could have a conversation that wouldn't be too loud. You could start a conversation by saying something like if they were reading a book, "What are you reading?" "How is it so far?" and then go from there. Also, you could ask them if you could join them.
2007-03-13 05:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by rachelly22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm not a club person either, haha and i have bad hearing AND i'm twenty four. Okay. I'm a real shy girl so in order for me to make friends lol, I have to wait for a guy to come up and talk to me. The last guy ( i have a 2yr boy ) came up while I was outside my apt with my son, and just started having a conversation with my boy. Then he just started talking to me. Like he said ' I dont know what he just said, but he is cute, I have two boys of my own. ' then we just started talking and stuff. I guess its really just the confidence issue. I never have confidence to go up and talk to people.
Oh yeah -- And remember. The worst they can say, is * No *.
Good Luck with it :)
2007-03-13 06:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by December 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably your general attitude. Girls don't want to get "work[ed] out" by a stranger.
I'm sure they can pick up on your intentions and will avoid you.
2007-03-13 06:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just ask your friends' girlfriends if they have any hot friends. Or become a football player they dig that and hockey players, (tough athletes).
2007-03-13 06:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live life and quit acting desperate.
2007-03-13 05:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋