This girl and i have been goin out, and actually she made the first move.
My parents and her's din't like it, so i told her we should stop.
she seemed to understand, but later on, she still called me.
the only problem i have is, "am not sure if i love her or not"
She give me gifts and everything, we talk and it's fun talking to her, but am just not sure if she is the one for me.
Plz help
2007-03-13 05:53:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand how her parents and yours also do not like the fact that she continues to pursue you aggressively by buying you gifts and everything. This is inappropriate behaviour for a young girl. You must first stop accepting her gifts and let her know that you wish to be friends with her and nothing more. Obviously your kind way of telling her to stop is not convincing her that you are serious. This can lead to misunderstandings later. Her parents already feel you are taking advantage of her by accepting her gifts. So be firm in your wish for her to stop. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-13 06:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem between the parents? Is she too young for you? Have either one of you been in some serious trouble before?
2007-03-13 12:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by David M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and yourself and tell her you don't feel comfortable going against your parents wishes. You don't have to have "the one" just to date. Dating is exploring new ideas and relationships, it doesn't mean the first person you date is your future spouse.
2007-03-13 13:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋