2007-03-13 05:39:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change who you are. There's a girl out there looking for you, you just have to be patient.
2007-03-13 05:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of different elements involved here.
1. Your looks, just because you're told you're cute doesn't mean you are desirable to that one woman. She probably made up her mind 30 seconds after she met you. Cute is not OMIGOD!
2. Your confidence. If you are insecure in any way it will show in non verbal ways. Your walk, talk, tone of voice, way you stand etc. Watch the desirable guys. They have a certain swagger in their walk that is irresistible. It kind of implies,"YOU KNOW YOU WANT THIS."
3. Your attitude. Do you generally keep a positive outlook on life? Do you value yourself? Keep in mind that no woman defines you. You must define yourself first and that type of woman will be drawn to you. It sounds to me like this is probably the root of your challenge. You are being exploited kind of like a woman who has sex on the first date. The only difference is you are being exploited for your intimacy skills, time, and possibly money. That has to stop, don't be mean or selfish, but definitely ask what's in it for me?
4. Keep her guessing. Never get too close too fast. Make her work for it a little and then take charge.
Good luck!
2007-03-13 14:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by SONG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get close to the girl that you really care about, the closer the two of you are the closer the relationship will be, the person you are with should be your best friend. But make sure that the girl knows you are interested, do things for her that are sweet.....didnt you ever see hitch, any man can have any woman, he just has to work hard and show her he cares!
2007-03-13 12:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls really are looking for a cute, sweet guy to settle down with. It's just the "bad boys" that get to break their hearts first so they can truly appreciate what they have when they are with a guy that treats them right.
2007-03-13 12:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by frozenpancake582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't change who u r. there are tons of girls out there, for ex me :P ;), looking 4 guy like u. U just have to be patient
2007-03-13 12:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by ღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? And why wouldn't anyone want you? just be yourself. If you have something to bring to the table, a lot of girls will want you.
2007-03-13 12:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely be yourself... I've changed who I was in order to get a boyfriend & it just made me unhappy.
2007-03-13 12:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by Happy go Lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋