If a GUY keeps on being so INCREDIBLY sweet to you ALL the time. Constantly. Should i make the first move. What? What do i say? Help
2007-03-13 05:29:57 · 14 answers · asked by candynour 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it! just ask him! i was in the same situation and i asked him and he said he liked me back! so now we've been going out for 2 weeks now! Just ask him, it seems like he does like you! good luck!
2007-03-13 05:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by yowhatup=) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends..... there are two different seniro's here
1) Most likely you should jsut let him make the first move. Guys like making the first move, they like feeling like they are the ones in control and such. You making the first move would suprise and threaten him. It's challenging his masculinity and his manhood. He's already foreward enough because as you've stated he is INCREDIBLY sweet to you. I reccomend you be very patient with him, and wait for him to make the move.
However........
2) If he could be described as the pushover type..... he's lloking for a woman to take charge. YOu can spot these guys out like a sore thumb.... they are looking for the woman to lead and if you dont respond to his "sweetness" soon enough he'll think your taking advantage or just not interest. In this instance i think you should definately make the first move when you are ready, just know not to take too long
Also, dont have sex before marrige
2007-03-13 12:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stupendous Man! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy is being incredibly sweet to you all the time then he has already made the first move just let things fall into place by themselves
2007-03-13 12:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! Just because a guy is sweet to you doesn't mean he likes you that way. If he asks for your number or asks you out then he likes you. Other than that, he's just a nice guy that isn't into you.
2007-03-13 12:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy like you say is being so incredibly sweet to you all the time, it sounds to me that he likes you and wants to be your friend.
2007-03-13 12:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may not know but honestly guys arent that nice unless they 1 want in you pants or 2 are obsessive but i dont know this guy make the first move just dont go over board
2007-03-13 12:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Haley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what exactly does he do?? it sounds like you should confront him and ask him if hes interested in you, or just a totally awsome guy.. you might be embarrassed, but if things go well, it will be a funny story to remember between the two of you!! haha :)
good luck
2007-03-13 12:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just ask or u will never know and what if u two would make a great couple after
2007-03-13 12:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put your part into it like when you're both flirting just give him the hint that you like him, just sord of mention it. Then just see where that leads. If he doesn't react the way you expected then he's messing with you.
2007-03-13 12:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by tai&amc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could just ask him if he has a girlfriend first and if he says no, just ask him out! He will probably feel flattered.
2007-03-13 12:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋