Is this jelousy?

Question

My children all four of them are very special in their own way. All have been or are honor roll students, perfect attendance and received reconition in their community of good works. Plus they work in the church. they are funny, loud and emotional at times, their teenagers, My son is a little slow he has a gift of music he can play three instructments learn on his own and good at it, he can fix electronics and work the computer. I children are trained in doing their choirs homework then play, I am teaching th em how to respect parents and others as well as them self. These kids are very happy and often make me laugh. Yet, people lable my kids, no my kids are not perfect I do have my problems with them as far as attitude little stuff, They have called my kids gettho, said that I work my kids to hard, do not let them breath. one lady made a big deal over a tapping noise my daughter made and got her husband talking down on the kids during a lecture we sat in.This ladies kids are adul

Answer 1

don't listen to them and ignore what people say, every body raise there kids different, and everybody has there opinions and have something to say about it. seems like you raising your kids good, they seem to be perfect to much but that's my opinion like i said everybody has a opinion on how kids are raised. but it sounds like you just bringing them up right not working them to hard. i think parents should raise there kids like you do. but don't listen to other parents just keep raisin your kids they way you want! good luck

Answer 2

Ok I have to admit when I didnt have kids I was telling my older sister that she should do this and that with the kids. But now that I am a mother myself I realize that watever I do is best for my daughter and see where my sister was coming from. SO basically stick to watever ur doing with your kids( Its sounds like your doing a good job). And ignore people that say negative stuff about your kids. Or simply let them know not to say anything about your children.

Answer 3

I don't think it's jealousy, I think that its easy to forget what it's like when the kids are just kids. When people get older and their children are grown, they aren't used to the noises that kids make. They probably don't remember any more when their own kids were the same way.