The gal ive been seeing is coming home for a few days, to see her parents, sort some stuff out...! is it selfish that i wanna spend loads of time with her...?
2007-03-13 04:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not selfish - it's normal. Just remember that her family (and other friends) probably feel the same way. Talk to her about her plans while she's in town and let her know how you feel. Maybe you can meet for breakfast one day, lunch the next, and dinner on her last night - that way you have some time each day.
2007-03-13 04:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not selfish however you have to understand that just like you've missed her other people have missed her as well. You may have to share her time that she's going to be here with her family and friends. Give her the first day to be with her family. Meaning when she first arrives give her like an hour or so with her parents then go see her. Visit her for a couple of hours. Then you suggest that she spend the rest of the day or evening with her parents that you and her can spend tomorrow together. If she has other family and friends that want to see her as well you can handle it the same way. Don't demand more or all of her time. Show her that you've missed her but you're willing to with her on spending time together. It sounds crazy but she may see it as you being such a sweet understand caring person. She will be willing to give you time without you having to ask for it.
2007-03-13 11:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sounds like you haven't seen her in a while. Make plans to spend some time together. Don't just barge in unannounced.
2007-03-13 11:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awwwww. No! You just miss her. But make sure you let her spend time with her family as well.
2007-03-13 11:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she doesnt deserve someone that selfish
2007-03-13 11:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by IC4NDY_ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, that's sweet!
2007-03-13 11:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋