if you are ready to leave the nest your parents are like on your case about everything and telling you how cruel the world is.
2007-03-13 04:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I believe it is called Empty Nest Syndrome or something like that. Reality is coming home to them you are no longer a child. And they are probably wondering if they did a good job preparing you for the big bad world. Be a sweetheart and include them by asking for there advise on little and big things but be sure you let them know asking for advise does not mean you will follow it just taking it into consideration. Let mom help you decorate your new place if ya want. They are not ready to let you go it seems so you have to be the "adult" and be considerate of there feeling now the same as they where for you for the past 18 years. If you are moving out town/State be sure you call them at least once a week to check in IM and email just aren't the same as hearing your voice. They will relax over time I promise.
2007-03-13 04:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The period between 16 and 20 is a transitional stage. And there seems to be non-stop issues that arise everyday. You just made it through school. They want you to take the time and find a career or further your education. They want you to take the time to find the right living arrangement and ensure that you have adequate funds to start that new life. You are so close and have dreamed of being on your own for years but in your haste can make bad decisions. The end does not always justify the means.
2007-03-15 09:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by cytopia1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the others say, they care. Sometimes too much. Take a look at your life, do you exhibit healthy mature responsible choices? Do they feel confident that you have the tools necessary to make it out on your own? Maybe there are things you can do to show them you are grown up without hurting them. Then they will start to have faith that you'll be OK. They love you and don't want you to suffer unnecessarily. They may never be ready to let you go. But try doing things that will make it a little less painful.
2007-03-13 04:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by his.grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by farraj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's because they care about you so much. I mean, have they not spent the past 18 years caring for you? Your parents pretty much live for you. They've done a lot for you. Their purpose is to care for you and worry about you. I would take this as a good thing. It means they really love you and they're worried. It's a good sign, I promise. Just give them time to adjust to you moving out. It's a BIG change for them as well.
2007-03-13 04:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Carson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have a job and a place to stay and don't worry about them. They'll let go after you've gone. Maybe they feel they didn't talk to you enough throughout highschool, or maybe they feel you weren't listening.
2007-03-13 05:01:15 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a mixture, they are pleased to see their kids grow up but sad that they are leaving. They will adjust, so give it some time.
2007-03-13 04:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they arent ready to let go of you.
2007-03-13 04:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh?
2007-03-17 04:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋