weve dated for the past year, shes all i want but she's jelous of
every one i know.
2007-03-13 04:22:33 · 9 answers · asked by bryan c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say let it go. Long distance relationships are hard and you don't want to get married after barely being able to see each other. That could turn nasty fast.
2007-03-13 04:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by puggylover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is there any way one of you can relocate cuz long distance relationships are really difficult to make work, i think, tho there are successful ones. Do some research and reading on long distance relationships. Talk to each other about both your needs/wants/expectations/goals and see if you 2 are one the same page and headed in the same direction. If you want different things well...also, why is so jealous do you think? Do you reassure her and love her in such a way that she has no reason to feel insecure? If you are treating her right and showing her affection and attention and respect and she STILL is overly jealous, you might need to evaluate that and consider if that's gonna be the deal breaker. Trust me--2 much jealousy is suffocating and unattractive and unhealthy and without trust there aint nuthin!!!
2007-03-13 11:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then obviously, your answer is no. And you gave yourself your own answer.
Just think: You're asking a panel of persons who don't know you from Adam about the biggest decision of your life - whether or not to marry someone who's is not comfortable in her own skin to accept that other people are in your life, and sees them as a threat.
What kind of life would you have with her - really? REALLY?
Find a friend, and marry her. Not this antisocial controlling female that you truly know very very little about -being so many miles away. Have you met her family, friends? Have you interviewed those who have watched her grow up and understand what makes her tick?
She's not ready for anyone, from what you say. Don't let your hormones influence you into making a very poor decision.
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2007-03-13 15:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is going to say "let her go".
A committment would not involve living apart from each other, it would involve moving closer.
In other words if you're committed enough to drop everything and move to OR and she's willing to move to MT, then go ahead and get married, but live somewhere neutral, away from both places.
2007-03-13 11:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful about the jealous part introduce her to everyone u know make sure they all become fast friends! tell her u luv her and purpose!GOOD LUCK we need more guys like u in this world! treat her like a queen! i hope everthing works out! she has got to marry a guy like u u r sooooooo sweet and if she doesnt call me I will! lol
2007-03-13 11:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends is she a crome gril or a plastic gril cause plastic doen't last as long as crome!!
2007-03-13 11:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Michael B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure!!!! Talk to her deeply, take MORE time, live together 1st before you marry her! Or at least in the same state!
2007-03-13 11:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her go, dude. Don't ever marry a woman who gets jealous.
2007-03-13 11:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the question is DO YOU LOVE HER? do you want to spend your life with her...raise children...share bills and troubles?...if you can say yes to this then miles should not matter....best of luck
2007-03-13 11:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by Erinyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋