well there is this guy i really like and i dont know how to tell him, but i kinda have to cause after tomorrow im not going to c him for 5 weeks and i dont wanna spend everyday wishing i had told him and if he doesnt like me its the perfect time to get over him.
Ok here is the story (u dont have to read all of this lol). I started to be interested in him before christmas, a week later we had christmas holidays so i didnt c him for (again) 5 weeks. After this he was sort of different like he decided that i wasnt right and he just wanted to be friends (he didnt say it but it felt like it). well i thought "fine with me" and started to get over it but then I went to a party and he was there too. I said hi and went to sit with my friends. But then (altough he new basically everyone there) he came over and talked to me for quite some time and of course i fell for him all over again. Now i really want to tell him, just dont know how to.
What do I say?
2007-03-13 04:09:04 · 9 answers · asked by Finn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok here is what i wont say (got that far lol):
I like you- can be miss understood, ie in a friendly way and doesnt sound that good
I REALLY like you -sounds a bit like a 13 year old (no offence but he already thinks im too young, im 17 by the way and he is 24. I know big age gap but its not like i just want sex or something along those lines, i just want to be with him)
I love you - nope, sounds way to serious and i´ve never been in `love` so i dont no
How do you feel about me?- please how stupid does that sound!
I like you a lot, you know in that " im attracted to you, i like ur personallity, my heart jumps everytime i c u, i love the way i feel when u look into my eyes, i cant stop smiling when ur around me" kinga way -if u say it fast enough it seems to be the best so far or is it too much (propably freez half way through lol)
pls anything will help (other than an "ur too young for him" i know that myself! but u cant help who u fall for so i cant chnge it )
thanx soo much
2007-03-13 04:19:17 · update #1
Hey. Being the same age as you i hope that i could benefit you with some advice. I would definitely not tell you to go up to him and say i love you or i like you, instead ask him for assistance on some kinda subject your taking and then just hang out as friends. If you still feel the same attraction for him then indirectly throw signs at him, if you dont feel the attraction then you just have to back up. You might not really like him, only attractd to him because you dont know him that well.
2007-03-20 19:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so eager to tell this guy how you feel about him? You already know that he is capable of walking across the room and having a conversation with you. He probably does just want to be friends - you might spoil that by 'declaring your love or like or whatever' so what has you so eager to do that?
Let him take the lead. He knows where you are. If a guy is interested, he acts on it. Or he tells someone else to get the message to you. He's not doing that. I'm betting that he wants to be friends so leave it at that.
2007-03-21 03:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i would do is spark up conversation with him everytime i see him, im kindof flirty anyway but id blow kisses at him and wink my eyes and then giggle a little thats if you want to get his attention and let him know there is some interest thereand always dress your best to catch his eye,
after a while if he starts to pick up on things , hey approach him and let him know how you feel, the only way you will get an answer is to approach the situation up front, and he if hes not interested then move on, hey at least you tried right!
2007-03-21 03:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to get over him . forget him hes too old for you and move on, your 17 and he is 24 too old for you. you have yopur whole life ahead of you DO NOT BE IN ANY HURRY TO GROW UP ..enjoy your life meet other guys form relationships , be a teenager while you can and get over this crush you have ,, its only a crush,,,use your mouth god gave you and either tell him or forget him,,,
2007-03-21 04:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by beth b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know you might find this immature but i think its kind of a cute way to tell him.
tell him you need guys advice. when he asks you what you can say, im into this guy and i dont know how to tell him. then when he gives you the advice, use it the very next moment.
2007-03-20 13:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna be honest.i didnt read everything you wrote.but all i know is that youre gonna be gone and you really like this guy.YES!you should tell him how you feel.dont sound desperate though.just be cool about it.and tell him straight out that you like him!
2007-03-21 03:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just come out and tell him that you have feelings for him, if you wait too long someone else might take him, and then you will have to work even harder to gain his love and affection.
2007-03-21 04:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by masterqbj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you felt at the party.
Ask him if he feels the same "chemistry" as you do.
2007-03-13 04:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you got all the answers from your self, just pick one.
2007-03-21 01:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋