2007-03-13 03:56:38 · 70 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to slow down. You're still young.
2007-03-13 03:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by blcria 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think those terms are horrible. If you were a guy you would be praised for the deed, but you are a female and people use those remarks without even knowing who you are or what you are like. Is it good that you have done that? Absolutely not, it can pose many problems for you. Think about it. If you were with one guy a month which may not seem like much, you will have slept with 36 people by the time you're 20!!! Pregnancy and or disease are sure to reach you before you turn 18 as no matter how careful you are they always find a way. Slow it down hun, I can tell you from experience that it doesn't matter who you're with you will not be satisfied until you are with one person for a long time. It takes time to get to know what pleases a partner and the more time you have with your partner the more satisfying. You are cheating yourself by giving yourself to boys who will not remain in your life. Also what you have been doing does not mean you have to continue doing it. Wait it out, and make them wait too, they will respect you more and are more likely to stick around. Good luck!
2007-03-13 04:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being a slut is all dependent on what the girl was thinking at the time. If you're just having sex for the sake of having sex, or if you were having sex with guys concurrently then yes, probably. But if you were in long term relationships with those guys and seriously believed that you were in love, then it doesn't make you a slut.
If you're going to sleep around, then use protection.
If you have to ask the question, though, you probably know the answer already.
2007-03-13 04:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sure does, look at it this way. By the time your 30 at this rate you will have slept with at least 78 guys. Sorry that is a slut in my book.
2007-03-13 04:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by green eyed lady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad for any girl who finds herself in that position. Promiscuity is actually a cry for help. It could be that the person (males can be promiscuous as well), was sexually molested, was emotionally or physically abused, or the worse of all - neglected.
Having indiscriminate sexual relations will not make you feel better about yourself. It makes you feel used and empty.
Set yourself a goal in life and work towards it. It's extremely difficult to lift yourself out of some situations and so much easier to live down to what your parents and family want you to think about yourself, but you can push that aside and move on.
If it is you Little One, try to remember that this is hard time in your life and that someday there will come someone in your life that will love you for you. You will not have to change a thing about yourself or prove yourself to them. They will love you unconditionally and it will be the most wonderful thing in the world when you find each other.
Until then, strive to make yourself the best person you can be.
I wish you all the very best!!!
2007-03-13 04:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If this is the way that you choose to live your life, you are asking for STDs and HIV/Aids.
I am so blessed that I saved myself for marriage, and have only been with my husband.
You need help young lady, I think that you are equating the sexual act with love and acceptance, and that does not work at an immature age, you are being used by all of these guys.
I can only hope and pray for your sake and your health that you are on birth control and every guy has used a condom every time.
2007-03-13 04:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sue F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. A person who sleeps with 6 guys, using them, and abusing themselves (i.e. not being able to close legs) and says yes to anything is a %$&·. A person that meets other people, wants something, they want something, and they do something about it, having control, and running the shhhhht is a player. There are both men AND women who fall under both categories. Yes, it is harder for a girl, to walk around without being called a $%&· but that is because girls insult other girls. They will want anything they can use against you, so they will say you´re easy. Go about it like one of the girls from ´sex in the city´ and they can say whatever they want, you just won´t give a darn. Love and Respect.
2007-03-13 04:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are only one if you think that you are. However, the boys and girls for that matter that you know will probably think so. Why do you feel you have to have sex so often with different guys? Don't equate sex with love. If you continue to do so at least protect yourself with birth control. Remember that you are also vulnerable to a number of diseases! Some of which have lifetime sentences! Be careful. Love yourself first.
2007-03-13 04:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by dancergalny 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depends, did you love them? In that case, no you are not. You were just following your path of love towards the 6 guys...
Sleeping with a man, is like an airconditioner. When your hot, it cools you down. But when your not performing to the standards, then you need some fat sweaty guy to come fix you.
2007-03-13 04:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and anyone who had to think about the answer to this is also a slut or comes from a family of loose women.
2007-03-13 04:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by abul h 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
only if a 17 y/o guy who has slept with 6 girls is a slut.
2007-03-13 03:58:47 · answer #11 · answered by nope 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋