this other guy that i have been liking for a very long time actually likes me now but i dont want to break my boyfriends heart but on the other hand i really have liked this other guy since before i ever met my boyfriend should i break it off now because if i dont it might hurt him more in the end or should i stay with my boyfriend and long to be with the other guy forever seeing as this might be my one shot with him what should i do someone has to talk to me any one know anything about this then please im begging you HELP!!!!!
2007-03-13 03:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you??? 13-15 I'll bet. You're acting like this is the guy of your life and can't afford to pass on him. Get a grip. Throwing away your current boyfriend could be a mistake if this other guy doesn't do you right. Too young to worry about it too much, so whatever you do won't hurt forever
2007-03-13 04:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough call...'.the grass is always greener' and then when you get on that grass it isn't so green as you thought...I personally think if your present relationship is a pretty good, solid one stay with your present guy...You may be totally disappointed by this other guy and kicking yourself in the butt for hurting the first guy...If the second guy is really interested he will wait to see what becomes of your present relationship...if you break up with your present guy then how could the new guy be able to trust you if you found someone better then him? I hope I am making sense....just stay with your present guy....
2007-03-13 10:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't give your whole heart to your boyfriend, you have no business being with him. Even if the other guy didn't like you, you should not be with your boyfriend. How would you feel if you found out that your boyfriend had a huge crush on another girl for years? There is no commitment if you can't be wholly committed.
2007-03-13 10:54:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't be fair to the guy your with now to just break up with him because all off a sudden you like another then that means you don't love your boyfriend at all to let some other pretty face turn your your heart away to me i just think its another crush and maybe if you do break up with the boyfriend for this guy it would just end up in a catastrophy maybe he'll never treat you like your old boyfriend did and you'll end up regreting it think wisely befor you choose for it will be you last choice.!
2007-03-13 11:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Baby_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go with whatever ur heart says, if ur heart says u love the guy ur with then stay and if it says u love the guy ur longing for then go but whatever u do make sure that the decision ur making is for ur self and not for anyone else
2007-03-13 10:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't have and eat that too.
so have one at a time.
2007-03-13 10:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do them both.....you know why? cuz you's a hoooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
2007-03-13 10:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by stoner_SAM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋