My BESTFRIEND went to jail and he might not talk to me when he gets out cause iiM going out with one of his friends and ii was gonna go out with him again he DIDNT ask me out before he went to jail BUT he told me he wanted me BACK ii love that boy more than anything and if he stops talking to me ii dont know what ii would do.. He was there through ALOT and ii cant wait for him to get out again BUT iiM kinda scared for him to get out cause of that.. ii DONT talk to half of my family cause of him cause my family told me to choose and ii said him cause they was they ones who wanted me to choose ii cant lose his friendship cause its almost the ONLY thing that matters to me anymore and he gets out in 10 DAYS.. ii cant wait to see him!!!
2007-03-13 03:47:49 · 14 answers · asked by SmOove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok.. He is my BESTFRIEND.. He went to jail cause he broke my 'boyfriends' jaw. The reason he did that was because my 'boyfriend' hit me in my face. So he had to go to jail for 4 mouths.. the reason iiM scared he aint gonna talk to me is because he doesnt want me to be with my 'boyfriend' and My family doesnt like him is because he was ALWAYS there for me.. and ii didnt have to ask them for ANYTHING because he ALWAYS gave me what ii needed. Thats why ii stopped talkin to them instead of him. ii went and saw him every visitin day ii could since hes been in there.. he only has 10 more days.. So yeah. He means ALOT to me and ii couldnt just leave him hangin' like ii didnt care. So what do ii do now??
2007-03-13 04:22:52 · update #1
Tsk, Tsk. You must be young, because this puppy love is ridiculous. You do not talk to your family because of him? Wake up. Your family does not like him and from the sound of it, for good reason.
2007-03-13 03:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by redwinegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your looser friend is in jail because he belongs there. He has been there before. He will be there again. You should be gone when he gets out. You should be looking for a better life elsewhere. You know this can't get any better. Find some new friends and apologize to your family. If he is your best friend and you really like him, let him go away from you. Sounds like You are the cause of all the problems.
2007-03-13 03:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What to do?.......Live and let live.
Sounds like a regular jailbird to me. ("can't wait for him to get out again")
Why are you scared? Will he get violent?..or..you're scared to face him about a new guy?
Personally....I'd never choose an "offender" over my family.
You're getting in over your head and don't even realize it...(such a shame)
He'd be a terrible "role-model" for his kids too. (They'd be ashamed of their dad)
Note:
I could've given a better answer if only you'd tell what the incarceration is for.
EDIT:
Thanks......
I'd dump the one that hits me. Best friend?.....Tell him your concerns and work through it together. He needs to stay clear of your current BF. Maybe move away together?
I have no idea what kind of family issues you have, so I really could'nt give accurate advice on that. (speculated)
2007-03-13 04:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 'love' him and he is the ONLY thing that matters to you anymore, then why are you going out with one of his friends when you know it will hurt him?
Just tell him what he means to you.
And try to ment things with your family because they are probably just worried about you, and considering the company you keep, it is little wonder.
2007-03-13 03:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by Peta G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find someone else & get over this guy. He’ll only bring you trouble. Please think about your future & do the right thing even though it will be hard for you at first. In the long run dropping him is your best move.
2007-03-13 03:54:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mike H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SIT DOWN and think about ALL the pros and cons of being friends or more with this jailbird.
2007-03-13 03:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a loser. Look for a new best friend.
2007-03-13 03:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by blcria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have visited him inside? Have you any idea how lonley prison is - everyone who goes pen changes loads.
2007-03-13 03:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a better group of people to hang out with.
2007-03-13 03:49:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is really your friend then he will understand. You need to decide who you want to be with.
2007-03-13 03:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by kingsgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋