If they think a guy likes them do they do this to make the guy lose his mind, or if they clear the scene does it just me they couldn't care less if you exist.
I think that it means they dont care about you cos if they did they would''t leave you.
2007-03-13 03:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, ask yourself... "How do I treat this girl?"
If you are also playing absence, you CANNOT blame her.
Also, did you let her know that you like her, I mean you really tell her your feelings towards her. IF you did and she is still playing this "absence" mind game with you... than forget about her and move on.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-13 05:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite clear what you are asking here.
Are you talking about the 'takeaway' at a party or something? Where you are talking and then she leaves you for a while and waits for you to find her again? This works for guys as well as girls, and is just a common game to play.
If you are talking about spending time apart while you are dating, this is another issue. When you first start dating, it could be to keep the two of you from smothering each other--you both have your lives, and to change everything just because she has a boyfriend this week is asking a lot--don't be afraid to spend some time apart.
On the other hand, if you have been together a little while and it seems like she is trying to move backward and spend less time with you, this could be a sign of trouble. It could be the end, or it could just be that she needs a break from you. If she needs a break, try to figure out if it is you--are you annoying, boring, or demanding when you are with her?
2007-03-13 03:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that really applies. If you care about someone, you are going to care whether they are there or not. I don't understand how or why anyone would think this was a way to manupliate anyone into wanting to be with you. I had rather spend the time together than be apart if there is a choice involved. Why waste time with stupid games?
2007-03-13 03:53:57 · answer #3 · answered by sereta zandrae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absence does make the heart grow fonder but i have never seen a woman capable of following through with it.
2007-03-13 03:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you need to talk immediately. dont tell her what til she agrees to meet .
if she doesnt want to, then leave her for good.
if she does, tell her its fine to date AND have time with friends etc and not be in each others pockets, but you need to know where you stand as you dont like being messed around. be honest with her, ask her to be honest back.
may not get the answer you really wanted, but at least you'll know either way and can get on with it or move on.
good luck
ps men and women do this!not good either way
2007-03-13 04:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by hedgewitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female play that hard to get game man . it is to weed out who really wants them or not. Heres the only option you have. Let her know that you dont play games, and then inform her that you'll can hang out like adults or that your wiling to leave those are your only options
2007-03-13 03:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, hun, that's exactly what most woman do.
But not because they don't care.
It's because men tend to behave a lot better when you're a b*tch, and run after you all the faster if you run away.
To get rid of a man is to give him exactly what he wants.
2007-03-13 03:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a game player Postie and I suggest to you, if your involved with one.
Run Forest Run, life's to short to get involved with idiots.
2007-03-13 04:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some do, as do men, personally I can't see the point, if you like someone let them know, don't play games.
2007-03-13 03:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people should stop fannying around and tell it like it is,men and women. it's either yes or no.
no maybe i like you or maybe i don't.
we could all get on and find someone to be with, without all this running and chasing and playing mind games. do you honestly want to be with someone who constantly messes you around?
i don't. and you shouldn't either.
2007-03-13 04:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by price 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋