There is a cool, hansome guy in my school who says that he loves me. i'm so caught up in this whole thing and i really want to find out if his love is really sincere but i dont know how to.He is so attractive that many other girls in my class want to have him and they are envying me. But the only thing i need to know is his character,but i dont have the spirit to talk to him directly. Can anybody find me some best ways for me to get to know his real attitude towards me?i mean, does he just have a passion for me or true sincere and everlasting love or am i just a temporary girlfriend? PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
2007-03-13 03:33:56 · 5 answers · asked by featherly5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
love is not something you feel
it's something you DO
I am willing to bet money on the fact that this guy does not love you.
Maybe he's infatuated with you, maybe he's lusting after you, maybe he likes you in a very romantic way, but love sweetie, I doubt that.
Just like DrewBlood so eloquently pointed out, love is always accompanied by an action and tested by time.
Love is a decision that is not based on a feeling because feelings change.
Do you think this guy would give his life to save yours? I doubt that. Romance, infatuation... they're all nice to have, but they NEVER last.
When (and if) your husband stays up all night with a pucking sick child so you can get some sleep... that's when you experience true love.
When your husband changes your diaper and cleans the mess because you're too old/sick to go to the bathroom. That is true love.
When he kisses you after your hair falls out and you gained a ton of weight and hair grows on your tongue (just kidding) that's love.
Loving pretty young women you don't know anything about is easy. It's called "hormones" and hormones ain't true love.
2007-03-13 09:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put it to you this way...................
* Love is an old lady holding the hand of her dying husband.
* Love is what you feel when your child is born.
* Love is when you say "yes" to a marriage proposal.
* Love is standing by a husband who was horribly burned.
* Love is what you feel on your wedding night.
* Love is when nobody else in the world is more beautiful!
What love is NOT is a guy in your class that says he loves you, but who barely even knows you!
2007-03-13 10:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERY1 asked that sort of question about boys (they are weiard like that lol) so if he really means it from the heart then go for it.
I think he's lonly and he's using u for a tempoary girlfriend trust i no where ur coming from its ALLWAYS happans to me!!! But deep down just think do u really like him? Is he thinking about u right now? Or is seein just slagging u off??? maybe i dunno? I hope this advise does u got if not i'm sorry
2007-03-13 10:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your going to have to relax and get to know him. i don't know how anyone can say they love someone when that person can not even talk to them. if you know his character then you shouldn't have to ask us.
2007-03-13 10:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wont know you'd feel it.
2007-03-13 10:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋