My girlfriend and I have been distant for the past couple of days due to miscommunication?

Question

I wrote her a letter to tell her how i feel about our distance , however she replied and said that the reason she was distant in the first place is that she had ahead acke and did'ntwant to tell me. I fell a little goofy having written the letter. I am not sure how to approach her, cause i feel embarassed writing the letter listing my fears when nothing major was th problem. advise

Answer 1

eih first i want to tell you that it's such a nice thing that you are not afraid to tell her how you feel, eventhough it means showing weaknesses..though writing a letter is a good way to express what you fell, you also have to consider that letters are open to interpretations, so maybe she misunderstood what you've wrote..why not talk to her in person and tell her everything you feel in this way she can directly react and you can immediately correct what she thinks..talk to her and be honest to her..tell what you feel..face her and don't be afraid to show what you feel..good luck..

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with writing the letter, but making one on one contact is better. Just get it over with, tell her you are sorry, and work on communicating better.

Answer 3

you don't have to feel ashamed of your self because of that.. if she really loves you she would understand.. she would appreciate your letter.. plus u and her have been in a distant for a few days.. possibly she looked forward for your reaction.. be sure of your self okay.. next time don't use letter

Answer 4

if u dont talk to her, then ur the one being distance
just tell her ur sry for writing the letter, u were just afraid that she was being distance b/c she didn't like u anymore- and that u just want to b w/ her

Answer 5

definitely maybe she has some else and keep pretendin cos she doesn't want to hurt u

Answer 6

Darn! Get over it. And call her!